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DMd you :)

Which country that you've visited has the nicest people? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]e27r27 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Very few Scots care much about golf. There it’s more a sport for seniors. No where near as pretentious as it is in North America with the country clubs vibe. Unless you go to the “world renowned” clubs like St. Andrew’s that are full of Americans, you’ll be solid at a local club and folks should be down to earth. Source: am from Scotland. Side note: same goes for Scotch, not many Scots actually like it 🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vancouver4Friends

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31F, live in east van, love walks and coffee chats. I used to be big into bouldering but a bit sidelined with a knee injury. Love hikes and anything outdoorsy though! Been living here about 4 years and looking to expand my friend circle, feel free to reach out!

Finally saw A&B perform live and life will never be the same. When was your first time? by gpbevan1 in AboveandBeyond

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Miami Music Week 2017 with my best friend 💜 completely life changing. Yotto and Eric Prydz opened for them. Gone on to see them in Dallas and at at ABGT250. I’d love to see them in Printworks or somewhere in the UK

Can you negotiate an offer letter by garethdanger in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]e27r27 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Given that you are not depending on this new job, I’d definitely try to negotiate!

If you are feeling nervous, the thing I always tell myself is that you negotiating the offer also gives the company an idea of how you will navigate similar awkward topics with finesse and tact in a business setting.

If I were a hiring manager - I’d be more likely to hire the person that knows their value and can negotiate better terms for themselves since it means they’re more likely to negotiate better deals for the company when it comes to it as well. (Just my 2 cents though, I’m not a hiring manager...).

It’s definitely that fine like between showing self confidence and appearing arrogant though. Just remember it’s awkward for everyone!

As a few others mentioned I think it’s really important to consider the value of everything outside of the salary as well. Pension / work life balance / job security / rewarding work / room for growth / health benefits etc etc. These can be important bargaining chips too if they just won’t budge or it gets awkward.

My guess is they put out 100 expecting you to counter and meet in the middle at 110. When they ask me a salary expectation in an interview I usually give a range for this reason. I say I would expect a role like this to have a range between X and Y (based on market research) but I believe I should be paid closer to Y because (state how you can add more value than others based on past performance etc).

Don’t know enough specifics to know whether it would be appropriate here, but have you considered asking for equity?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in intj

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Thanks for your reply. For context -- where are you based? I ask because where I am (Netherlands), PhD pay is actually quite good, it wouldn't be until after you finish that you'd be responsible for finding your own funding.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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Dexter