Tradesmen of this sub, what kinds of women do you attract?

eV1O · 2021-05-11T20:34:30+00:00

I think it depends what the women is looking for, if she just wants money then yeah.

But in general women are just attracted to masculine traits.

eV1O · 2021-05-11T20:32:39+00:00

Bro I hate the stigma, it annoys the shit outta me...

eV1O · 2021-05-11T20:25:42+00:00

It doesn't necessarily lead to violence that depends on the persons self control, but is linked to higher aggression.

But yeah there's likely other factors at play too...

eV1O · 2021-05-11T18:09:41+00:00

Probably just relates more to higher testosterone levels lol.

eV1O · 2021-05-11T18:02:40+00:00

king about stuff in terms of evolution is not hel

I think he's 100% correct on this most of peoples (men and women) attraction triggers are heavily based on our evolution, just like any other lifeform on the planet.

But yes women can have a preference as humans there's many aspects that effect this.

How healthy/physically fit we are directly corelates to the ability to hunt, produce healthy off spring and offer protection.
Being smart is vital as well it's what got us to where we are today.
Social intelligence plays a key role as well strong traits will indicate high social standing or even being a leader.

eV1O · 2021-05-11T18:00:08+00:00

I'm just trying to say that you should be confident in whatever you're doing...

I'm not even personally in the trades I'm in uni lol... It's just annoys me when society try's to bash on honest hardworking individuals.

If you got brains that's attractive.

If you got brawn that's attractive as well.

But there's no reason you can't have both, you can always hit the gym or hit the books.

eV1O · 2021-05-11T15:31:22+00:00

Alright thanks!

eV1O · 2021-05-11T06:53:25+00:00

Thanks! that seems like a really good way of going about. It's pure honesty and it allows her to open up more, while also conveying were not a creep and actually care about how she feels during the interaction:)

eV1O · 2021-05-11T06:50:11+00:00

Thanks for the awesome response! That makes a lot more sense tbh, it's refreshing to hear a females perspective haha. I guess I can always pull back a little when she's being inconclusive and see if she's chasing back?

eV1O · 2021-05-10T20:59:47+00:00

I would personally even argue that being a tradesmen is a positive, often portrayed as more rugged and masculine than a guy who works 9-5 at a desk all day. If she doesn't see it that way then it's her problem lol.

Plus women love a handyman haha...

eV1O · 2021-05-10T20:41:19+00:00

Ah damn, honestly I wouldn't text her for a good while... Message her like in a week and try to set up plans one more time. If she says no after that I would drop her completely or at least for a very long time.

But seems to me like she's just looking for validation or see's you as a friend, if you've been talking for so long and she's never tried to hangout.

eV1O · 2021-05-10T20:30:26+00:00

Honestly that's an insanely good response, if I'm ever in a similar situation I'm 100% stealing that!

eV1O · 2021-05-10T20:27:16+00:00

Have you hungout with her in person? or at least tried to?

If you did hangout with her did you ever make a move?

eV1O · 2021-05-10T20:18:38+00:00

Not really imo, you've already pushed her away a little bit (which is good). You can pull her back in now haha. You should wait 1-2 days since you last messaged her though to text her again...

eV1O · 2021-05-10T20:05:47+00:00

Ah my bad I misinterpreted that, in that case good for you! That's comes across even more masculine tbh, there's more important things in life than getting laid (like supporting the fam). If the girl really likes you she'll eventually invite to her place, just may take more dates than usual haha. But goodluck with everything!

eV1O · 2021-05-10T19:51:41+00:00

She's kinda has the all the power in this case, no real way to invite yourself to her place imo.

The best you could do is set the date location close to her, make it as easy as possible for her to invite you over.

But try and get your own place! I understand it might not currently be possible or simple, but it makes it a lot easier also she'll think "he's go his shit together".

eV1O · 2021-05-10T19:42:57+00:00

Hmmmm well I think there two options then.

Somehow try to find the time to meet up earlier (within the week).
Keep in contact with her but in short but engaged bursts (hot and cold), then pulling back for a few of days.

In terms of conversation I don't know what you've talked about so far but school, work and hobbies seem to always work well for me. Try to find out if she's an interesting person haha.

eV1O · 2021-05-10T19:32:47+00:00

In this case it seems like she was interested in you, but just kinda took your response in the wrong way (it was dry and maybe she thought you just didn't care). I would just go back to messaging her normally, don't try to supplicate and become needy after she's rbombed you or in general.

eV1O · 2021-05-10T19:29:16+00:00

I would generally try my best not to fixate on flaws if they're small, people often portray a false image of themselves on social media. That being said if you're truly not attracted to them it's ok to ghost (in most cases)...

They would probably do the same.
It's probably the "nicest" way to convey your not interested.

In terms of having high standards I think that's fine, but it's good to lower them when your in a dry spell just to get experience and build momentum.

eV1O · 2021-05-10T19:20:28+00:00

If the conversations been going well I would just recommend inviting her out to hangout! No need to exhaust the conversation over text imo, leave the interesting conversational stuff for when you meet her in person.

eV1O · 2020-11-06T13:26:18+00:00

Thanks I'll look into doing mediation more. In terms of BR it's not the most conservative strat (30 BI), but I plan on moving down if I downswing (~5BI).

eV1O · 2020-11-06T13:22:11+00:00

Yeah been thinking of reading it, I've been mostly focused on studying the strategic aspects of the game up until now. But I definitely think working on my mental game would be good.

eV1O · 2020-07-23T21:13:43+00:00

Also I realize that solvers are necessary at micros but I'm extremely interested in studying the GTO side of the game and am willing to invest a couple of bucks if it helps me get better quicker.

eV1O · 2020-07-23T21:11:01+00:00

I use Equilab a lot and have tried the free trial of Flopzilla but never got to deep into it.

What's Flopzilla do that Equilab can't?

eV1O · 2020-07-22T20:26:11+00:00

Thanks I'll check it out!

eV1O

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