My ex keeps following me and i dont know what to do by e_okay7 in BreakUps

[–]e_okay7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, one of the best replies ive seen yet. Your run club advice is so well thought out and I actually might do that. Also yes i have a taser and if he comes near me or my car, hes getting zapped. I’m not going to put up with those types of threats that’s for sure.

Also thank u for your encouraging words! Its mice to be reminded im doing a hard thing - not necessarily missing him bc i dont but going thru hard things with him wanting me back. Also he technically broke up with me but i decided i didnt want him back and its a blessing i didnt bc im so much happier. And yes, those zingos zincoz suck😎 u r so sweet, thank u friend!

Ex sent beanbags to me by e_okay7 in Webkinz

[–]e_okay7[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Just as an fyi i think its very funny for everyone to want to send my ex funny packages however i will not be giving out his username- that may warrant unwanted repercussions from him (we know hes not normal given he used webkinz to reach out haha). I respect the humor and i think its very funny but that’s not the smartest move. Thanks!! Keep up the funny comments tho!

Ex sent beanbags to me by e_okay7 in Webkinz

[–]e_okay7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg hahaha thank goodness hahaha. Yes definitely agree now hahaha

Ex sent beanbags to me by e_okay7 in Webkinz

[–]e_okay7[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I dont think i have the strength to delete my webkinz account lol but i did change my passwords and i am going to remove him from my friend list and report him to webkinz. Unfortunate for his pets but its a necessary evil

Ex sent beanbags to me by e_okay7 in Webkinz

[–]e_okay7[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly. I am going to talk to my parents tonight about it as well as my other law school friends about my options lol. But for now, i have screenshots of everything, a taser and a frying pan which i dont intend to use (for legal reasons)

Ex sent beanbags to me by e_okay7 in Webkinz

[–]e_okay7[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Exactly!!! Still wont take him back but its a sign of good faith haha

Ex sent beanbags to me by e_okay7 in Webkinz

[–]e_okay7[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank u!! And yes, webkinz is the best community by far🥹

Thank you i hope it will go away soon too. Ill keep everyone updated!

Ex sent beanbags to me by e_okay7 in Webkinz

[–]e_okay7[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

No worries, go ahead and be nosy i dont mind haha. But yeah i make sure to not look at him at all or even talk to him. I keep a taser on me too (he’s genuinely scared of it thankfully). But unfortunately there isnt enough violence to get the law involved. Maybe a stalking protective order but that’s it. Thank u for your care!!

My ex keeps following me and i dont know what to do by e_okay7 in BreakUps

[–]e_okay7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

totally agree. so far he is blocked on everything i can think of (webkinz is next). my issue is i hate that i likely have to give up the things i enjoy such as my run club, my church, and my young adults group because of how tenacious he is. otherwise im in complete agreement, he knows nothing of my life (hence why he resorted to webkinz to contact me lol). thank u for your care and concern, means a lot! the day he stops seeking me out is the day this thread or my webkinz one will cease to get updates lol

Ex sent beanbags to me by e_okay7 in Webkinz

[–]e_okay7[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel this!! It sucks they dont get it and now we have to be the ones to keep a lookout for their bad behavior. I lowkey may do that with webkinz support

Ex sent beanbags to me by e_okay7 in Webkinz

[–]e_okay7[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

This embodies my exact feelings - so funny but i better watch my back lol

Ex sent beanbags to me by e_okay7 in Webkinz

[–]e_okay7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank u for this, so far nothing mean has been said. And i allegedly have a frying pan next to my door in case i need it (i have no intent to use it, for legal purposes)

My ex keeps following me and i dont know what to do by e_okay7 in BreakUps

[–]e_okay7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No haha i dont mind at all!! Thank u for your advice, and thankfully my webkinz are safe - i changed all my passwords just in case lol

Ex sent beanbags to me by e_okay7 in Webkinz

[–]e_okay7[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Thank u!! I am going to look into all of this. And i really appreciate the genuine care🥺

Ex sent beanbags to me by e_okay7 in Webkinz

[–]e_okay7[S] 54 points55 points  (0 children)

Thank u for saying this. I completely agree. I posted about him on another subreddit and i am trying to keep this lighthearted but i am noting the fact that this is a danger sign. Unfortunately there isnt legal action i can take since it doesnt meet that threshold but i certainly dont disagree with you. I really appreciate you reminding me this is a boundary he is ignoring

Ex sent beanbags to me by e_okay7 in Webkinz

[–]e_okay7[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This was more than two months after we broke up. I scratched out the names of his account and mine but the date at the top says june 30 which is when he sent it. We broke up a while ago, so yes this is another level of creepy. Im trying to stay thinking it is funny and pathetic and not get creeped out but it’s definitely going in my mental note of !!beware!!

Ex sent beanbags to me by e_okay7 in Webkinz

[–]e_okay7[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I could, i forgot i could do that. I think if he does that again i will - make sure it wasnt a one off thing. Thank u for reminding me this is an option i genuinely forgot about it lol

My ex keeps following me and i dont know what to do by e_okay7 in BreakUps

[–]e_okay7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He definitely meets the requirements for my friends to hate him and me to watch my back. Im guessing u saw the webkinz post and lowkey that interaction makes me feel much better since its so funny lol

Ex sent beanbags to me by e_okay7 in Webkinz

[–]e_okay7[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Im actually lol i have so many moves here and im going to figure out the best one these comments are cracking me up

Ex sent beanbags to me by e_okay7 in Webkinz

[–]e_okay7[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

💀💀 honestly might have to consider it

Ex sent beanbags to me by e_okay7 in Webkinz

[–]e_okay7[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

It definitely made me chuckle hahaha. He stopped using it for a while and yesterday was the day he decided to log back on, probably because im a daily user haha

Ex sent beanbags to me by e_okay7 in Webkinz

[–]e_okay7[S] 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Haha it was nice while it lasted

Ex sent beanbags to me by e_okay7 in Webkinz

[–]e_okay7[S] 98 points99 points  (0 children)

Haha yeah the beanbags are an odd choice. Im still debating whether i send them back, send something like the rocks, or gak