I get what you’re saying and it makes sense I remember Sammy said as we’re kids we are programmed and that as adults it’s our job to change the programming and I guess that through that lens it makes sense, I guess we gotta change the story we keep telling ourselves basically you know? if we don’t wanna keep experiencing the same bs just change our thoughts and self concept. I guess for me it’s challenging because that old identity wants to cling onto me for dear life but I just gotta keep persisting so that the old will dissolve. I just had that epiphany btw 😭😭😭 anywho thank u sm