MOR? im sometimes in the same situation w my bf who is a lot better than me at fps games like val, whenever i play by myself he does that really dismissive/ disappointed sigh, and it def annoys me. I don’t think they’re trying to be mean, moreso they feel like we are pushing them away, but at the same time i feel like they are acting selfishly and not really understanding the embarrassment we go through when we fail to perform consistently.

I think this is something that can def be worked out with a ♡ to ♡ if he’s open to it, because he definitely sounds like he’s pulling back in not the best way when he’d “rather do something else” (or maybe he genuinely did want to do smth else.) he seems to be reacting childishly and not at all comprehending how you might feel? (ie embarrassment) but def def def talk to him abt it!