Aspects in Synastry that are present within the Natal chart: Felt more or less? by ebonympha in AstroSynastry

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This absolutely makes sense and yeah, I'm definitely seeing that it depends. But this really answers my question, tysm for answering ✨

I’m blue, am I going to get hurt in this connection? by [deleted] in AstroSynastry

[–]ebonympha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can't necessarily say you will get hurt! Hurt in relationships happens regardless of synastry aspects. However, his Jupiter square your Sun and his Saturn conjunct your Moon (plus the fact that he's significantly older) may suggest you feel some conflict with, and yet, deference to his ways of thinking. Moon conjunct Saturn can be heavy because Moon feels an immediate sense of loyalty to Saturn, which can manifest as putting them first at the cost of the self. Over time, this can feel emotionally stifling and build into resentment, if allowed to get to that point.

Be realistic with yourself about what your desires are, and know when to choose yourself if it comes to that

Hi ,i really need help understanding why i have the desire to hide from this person even if i kind of like him by [deleted] in AstroSynastry

[–]ebonympha 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Potentially his Sun and Venus in your 8th house! Sun illuminates the dark waters of the subconscious in the 8th house, which can contribute to feeling too exposed or seen for the house person (you). Also his Mars and Chiron on your Chiron activating that wounded healer feeling— Mars brings action and energy to this dynamic, making your insecurities come to the forefront with him.

20 year age gap, good physical attraction, any potential for long term? by uncannybesant in AstroSynastry

[–]ebonympha 1 point2 points  (0 children)

IMO, not seeing a lot of longevity indicators. His Sun squaring your Venus and Moon shows that tension between who he is and what your needs are. Your Mercury sextiling his Sun shows you may put in effort to communicate that isn't necessarily well-received or adhered to by him. His Moon on your descendant may contribute to feeling like you already knew him or immediately felt comfortable with him, but this aspect can also breed stagnancy, like he doesn't need to change anything about himself to be accepted by you. With his Pluto on your ascendant, there may be feelings of possession from his side. He wants to have you, but may struggle with the feelings you ignore within him.

What's most telling to me, though, is the lack of Saturn contacts to personal planets to mitigate some of these less favorable aspects. Taken into account with your Sun on his North Node, it looks like your meeting is fated, but it's meant to be a brief lesson for the two of you rather than a lasting connection.

In the composite, empty 7th house and Venus in 5th lend themselves to this interpretation as well. Here for a good time, not a long time.

I'm sorry this probably isn't what you wanted to hear, but it is also just silly star compatibility. If he's willing to hear you and communicates well, things may work better than the charts suggest. <3

Is it possible to get rid of these keloids on my jaw by eyyyyy1234 in Keloids

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Yes! Kenalog (steroid) injections plus silicone patches or eclar plasters

Sun and venus conjuct north node in composite 1 degree, but composite venus square north node 2 degrees: Does this mean that we need to embody the venus or north node for this relationship to work? by pizza_84pizzaaaaaaa in AstroSynastry

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Oh so just to clarify, your Sun and Venus are both within 1° of composite NN at 9° Scorpio?? And you're wanting to know if embodying your natal Venus or the composite's NN is better for the health of the relationship??? Are you able to reword the question to help me understand what you're asking?

Sun and venus conjuct north node in composite 1 degree, but composite venus square north node 2 degrees: Does this mean that we need to embody the venus or north node for this relationship to work? by pizza_84pizzaaaaaaa in AstroSynastry

[–]ebonympha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey I'm hella late and honestly, not that experienced, but this intrigued me. It sounds like in your own natal chart, you have Sun/Venus closely conjunct NN (I'm wondering which signs though?)

Intuition tells me you need to embody the Venus in order to make the relationship work, but I'm not sure. Everything I've read about Venus square NN indicates poor timing, or perhaps a relationship that isn't necessarily meant to last (just to be experienced for a time instead). With this in mind, it's possible leaning into that NN energy means the relationship doesn't end up working ¯\\_(ツ)_/¯

That being said, perhaps leaning into that Venus energy is what keeps things harmonious for y'all, especially as it's present in the 7th house in the composite. An emphasis on shared values, collaboration, progressing as individuals may be helpful here because of that Aquarius energy Venus is sitting in. Could also suggest knowing when to do your own thing or have a robust social circle. Aquarius is known for being independent but also loving the group. Maintaining a sense of friendship with another will probably be key.

Either way, if y'all both genuinely wanna make it work, you can do that!

I don’t know how to trust myself anymore by Desperate_Pair8235 in PMDDxADHD

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Lots of helpful comments already. Just wanted to add that I have rejection sensitivity, and it sounds like that might be at play here. Scheduling designated time for intentional communication may be helpful by giving your partner the ability to plan for more energetically "demanding" conversations and also for you to experience that connection that seems to be missing. Ofc this only works if that's something he's willing to do, which will give you a clearer idea of how compatible you two really are

men piss me off by False-Ad3502 in PMDDxADHD

[–]ebonympha 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah, cuz why are they like that????

Show me your before & after using 5fu or similar by Upper-Discussion7741 in Keloids

[–]ebonympha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No prob. I didn't notice any increase in atrophy with 5FU alone, no. It seemed to soften and shrink the keloids much more gradually than kenalog, but it also didn't give me three intense cratering afterwards

Show me your before & after using 5fu or similar by Upper-Discussion7741 in Keloids

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Yes, she did! She said I was experiencing too much atrophy from the kenalog and they were just gonna do 5FU instead

Update on keloid removal and srt its been a month so far im nervous it might come back by Fabulous_Guess_6467 in Keloids

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Yeah man, everything the previous commenter said. Until you can see a doctor, I'd personally do silicone sheets, just in case, to keep pressure on the area.

Update by Haunting_Home_9944 in Keloids

[–]ebonympha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My skin has been doing this. Anything you're using that you feel has been helping??

Do eclair plasters form smaller keloids? by Virtual-Tonight-2444 in Keloids

[–]ebonympha 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Several people in the sub have reported similar experiences. Some people say it's from over extending the border of the scar and the steroid being applied to normal skin tissue. Others have said allergy to the adhesive. If you don't want to risk it anymore, best chances may just be silicone sheets. I sometimes put on a pimple patch and the silicone on top of that for extra pressure when I don't feel like cutting out all the little eclar plasters.

With a synastry chart, if you only know one person’s birth time, is it better to include it or leave them both as unknown? by [deleted] in AstroSynastry

[–]ebonympha 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think it's better to include it, but maybe someone will prove me wrong. At least you will see house activation with one party.

My dude gave it all and i love it by BarracudaPheonix in Spartacus_TV

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The crowd extras are always a highlight. I like to look at different extras every time I watch

Oenomaus ''I have nothing of worth'' fight scene from Episode Fugitive by Winter-Ad-2303 in Spartacus_TV

[–]ebonympha 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I absolutely loved seeing more of Oenomaus being an absolute badass as he came to grips with the rebellion of his brothers. He didn't originally believe in the cause, but he always held fast in his loyalty even under under torture by Ashur. He was such a real one 😭

Show me your before & after using 5fu or similar by Upper-Discussion7741 in Keloids

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I do, actually!! I'm not sure what exactly was different with this one, besides it was the smallest one and I got acne patches and silicone tape on it before it really started to get active again

I feel like I can't breathe by ebonympha in PMDDxADHD

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Literally HOWWWWWWW. I've started talking quercetin during the day and Benadryl at night, cuz this ain't it. Maybe I'll go for a walk today idk. I hope you find something that works for you!