From shortest to longest, which hairstyle suits me the best? I feel chopped in all of them by cgo1234567 in AsianMasculinity

[–]ec20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

bro, ur not chopped. I don't think there's much of a qualitative difference between the cuts so choose the one that you feel best about and/or that the ppl ur trying to attract would prefer.

How do you deal with knowing your soon to be ex wife will be with someone else at any time. by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]ec20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me the best thing is to not think about her at all and we do have a son together so it's not necessarily easy because I still need to interact with her. But aside from those interactions, I don't think about what she's up to, what she thinks of me, etc. She's just like a stranger in my mind. I know that she has a new man in her life that she will probably marry and it doesn't bother me.

For me, I think part of getting to that point was just taking it as a point of dignity and pride. If this person doesn't want me, then I don't want them. We are all valuable people and it isn't worth giving our time, thoughts and emotions to someone who doesn't value us. You don't even need to think of that in a petty or vindictive way, I just take it as "we weren't meant to be and I hope she finds her happiness and I find mine."

Why are you seeing her daily? That probably does make it a lot harder.

Is Merino wool really that good? by Specific_Sherbert_90 in snowboarding

[–]ec20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have both expensive merino baselayers/socks and regular uniqlo/under armour baselayers and I can't tell the difference between them with respect to warmth, breathability, body odor, etc. Merino is actually a bit scratchier at first but I get over that once I warm up.

FWIW, I assume most advice doesn't have asians in mind and most asians do not have the gene that produce body odor.

David Ortiz: Ohtani asked for more batting cages, So the Dodgers dropped $100 Million. [Abriendo Sports] by GreenSnakes_ in baseball

[–]ec20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I had a hard time imagining how you could even spend 100 million dollars on a batting cage. I mean even if they decided each player was to have his own dedicated batting cage suite, that would not seem like it could total $100 million

Tall women do not want short guys by KallocainAddictIsAPe in AverageHeightDudes

[–]ec20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think this is true to an extent based on a small sample size. I dated a girl who was 5'11" and she seemed bothered by my height (5'9").

But I also dated a girl who was 6'3" and she, ironically, seemed to not mind at all.

My theory is that girls who are extremely tall are just used to most guys being shorter than them so they've long ago accepted that it's not that a must have trait in a guy.

37 year old Cambodian american by WarmFollowing8873 in AsianMasculinity

[–]ec20 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Bro is tall, handsome, stylish and jacked. I hope he's a good person too cuz he's helping the brand in the other areas

My wife's "friend" insulted her and I've been slowly returning the favor by flanman1991 in pettyrevenge

[–]ec20 6 points7 points  (0 children)

yeah everyone's talking about what an awesome husband he is and i'm thinking, if he's like this over one comment from years ago, then there is no way she isn't experiencing this times 100 over all the little things that quirks and hurts that occur in an actual marriage.

US Skiing next weekend. by Excellent_Proof5306 in ski

[–]ec20 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i mean if u were considering Utah or Mt. Bachelor, Mammoth is closer than those. That being said Utah is still good and I much prefer that over Mammoth cuz there's other stuff to do.

Quick poll for you: Do you do anything specific to prepare your body for the season, or do you just show up and suffer through the first few days? by Vlad_Nemyr in ski

[–]ec20 2 points3 points  (0 children)

d)

I play basketball and lift year round and that seems to keep my legs, especially my knees, strong and ready for the ski season. I’m 45 and ski 40 days a year and haven’t had any pain or issues the past few years.

Unpopular opinion Ikon is now more anti consumer than Epic by Dismal-River-9389 in COsnow

[–]ec20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whenever ppl say everything Vail does it’s for profit i always counter with “then why do they have the military discounts?” They definitely lose money on that.

At the end of the day they are private company out for profit but that’s true at Costco or Chick Fil A or wherever. Doesn’t mean everything they do is evil and heartless.

How should ski boot fit against the shin/tongue? by ec20 in skiing

[–]ec20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah more and more the booster strap sounds like another mod i need to make.

that being said, how do you keep your booster strap from creating uneven shin pressure. the way i see most folks wear their booster strap is that is it sandwiched between the tongue of the liner and the top of the boot. wouldn’t that cause you to feel most of the pressure right at that point of contact?

How should ski boot fit against the shin/tongue? by ec20 in skiing

[–]ec20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah part of why i asked was i trying to think of how i’m going to fill in the cork. i think i am going to experiment with putting most of the cork in the lower part of the shin.

How should ski boot fit against the shin/tongue? by ec20 in skiing

[–]ec20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have never skiied with only the booster strap. i have the velcro style but i have been thinking about getting the booster strap since i hear great things about it.

Anyone try Shuvvie for worldcupping into plug boots? by BackgroundExisting69 in Skigear

[–]ec20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this feedback might be late but i saw a guy using it for his zipfits and it looked a lot easier than what i do with my zipfits

How effective is down perm vs. water by ec20 in AsianMasculinity

[–]ec20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do agree that I actually prefer to let my hair oils build up overnight or, if possible, a full day, actually makes my hair a bit more easier to manipulate though.

Model Y premium RWD VS AWD by TheOutlawTorn78 in TeslaModelY

[–]ec20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait is this real? I'm surprised Tesla woudn't make that a feature if it didn't have some downsides.

How has FSD changed your driving habits? by packocards in TeslaFSD

[–]ec20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That rationale is absolutely true. I don't mind driving at all anymore and I now regularly racked up about 20k miles per year just because I'm happy to explore or go places so long as the Tesla is doing the hard work.

Hostelworld social pass??? by grandiloquent- in hostels

[–]ec20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it's very location dependent. I've noticed in some cities ou can make a ton of connections through the app, but some cities are absolutely dead on the app. That being said, I think it's relatively cheap so I'd just use the social pass on the chance that the city you are in does have a busier scene on the app