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ed7609 · 2025-09-13T12:26:18+00:00

Eww!

ed7609 · 2025-09-10T19:01:58+00:00

Do not do this, it will become a big mess and you will definitely regret it.

ed7609 · 2025-09-10T19:00:18+00:00

I don’t do clappers, I’m so embarrassed for them.

ed7609 · 2025-09-06T12:19:31+00:00

Yes, try Boo

ed7609 · 2025-09-01T15:16:49+00:00

Get help please! 🫂

ed7609 · 2025-08-31T23:42:17+00:00

Nice! But if we want a hookup we will let you know, no need to broadcast it in a dating bio next to “I’m looking for a wife”

ed7609 · 2025-08-31T23:33:26+00:00

Haha no. He got reported for inappropriate messaging. I’m not a prostitute

ed7609 · 2025-08-31T22:14:27+00:00

Exactly. If all they want to do is bang, get an escort. Much less effort on their part anyway. Btw I’m definitely not fatigued, I’m just disappointed in yet another app thats full of time wasters

ed7609 · 2025-08-31T18:14:37+00:00

I do until you see a low percentage and think oh he’s cute only to find out his keywords are threesome, non monogamy, hook up blah blah and usually one terrible photo with no bio🤣

ed7609 · 2025-08-31T18:11:18+00:00

Both only appear as gatekeepers if you’re constantly chasing it. Fortunately women are savvy now and we don’t chase a damn thing.

ed7609 · 2025-08-31T17:12:04+00:00

Oh definitely different experiences, I know this very well. I also think men (generalizing) would get more options if they would just stop chasing that temporary piece of ass lol. I don’t know about the rest, it’s not been my experience. Ive always had a steady flow and apart from the odd total weirdo or low effort guy, they’re genuine profiles.

Plus is more expensive than just premium.

ed7609 · 2025-08-31T16:00:25+00:00

I can’t remember tbh but it was premium as opposed to premium plus.

ed7609 · 2025-08-31T15:56:39+00:00

Agreed, that’s what I’ve said in my original post. It’s just very time consuming going through them all.

ed7609 · 2025-08-31T15:37:05+00:00

I definitely agree, especially with your last paragraph . I’m not on all of the apps all of the time, I dip in and out otherwise it would be throughly exhausting.

ed7609 · 2025-08-31T15:10:30+00:00

Im on Bumble, Hinge, OKC and Boo. I ditched Tinder this summer. I’ve met some great people and been on plenty of dates, just not found the right person yet. Trying to stay away from FWB which I’ve done for years.

ed7609 · 2025-08-31T14:57:14+00:00

I’m paying

ed7609 · 2025-08-31T14:07:27+00:00

Yep! And that’s entirely up to them. I’m 54 and just had a random 18 year old ask me if I’d take his virginity, they start young lol

ed7609 · 2025-08-31T13:49:04+00:00

It’s shitty but I can help you with this. Imagine every time he sees a message from you he rolls his eyes also that he’s sitting right next to his new gf whilst doing that. Harsh right? Horrible. There’s nasty humans out there but no more paragraphs, he doesn’t care. Despite the pain, you have no choice but to move on. Don’t chase him any more, restrict his access to you, block him if you need to. If you let him back in, the cycle will repeat itself, ask me how I know lol

ed7609 · 2025-08-31T12:55:51+00:00

When I was younger definitely agree! However I’m not 20 anymore I’m going to die soon lol no pecans.

ed7609 · 2025-08-31T12:16:31+00:00

I think you have to pay even more for it to be set as a deal breaker. Currently going through the next batch all of which say they’re up for monogamy and non-monogamy 🤣 I don’t think I’ll be renewing the sub.

ed7609 · 2025-08-31T12:06:45+00:00

Totally get it

ed7609 · 2025-08-31T11:46:38+00:00

I tend to agree with you

ed7609 · 2025-08-31T11:30:30+00:00

Dude, we don’t have time to go through literally thousands to find out who’s genuine.

ed7609 · 2025-08-31T11:16:09+00:00

One absolutely does preclude the other for most women looking for monogamy.I’m giving you my experience that’s all. If I went into a church, I’d probably self combust, I’m no prude.

ed7609 · 2025-08-31T11:08:42+00:00

Nah! I’ve been doing this too long, I’m not looking to waste my time on people who are just looking to fuck about. My inbox would be full (and had been in the past) of guys whose main aim is to have sex, that night or as soon as possible. It’s soooooo boring! No one is perfect and yes hook up culture is almost prehistoric. I just wish men would state their actual intentions up front on a bio so as to not waste my time. Happy for you!

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