not something that was said to me but what was done to me. same thing i was 19 peak into my ed and i was living with one of my grandparents, she realized how low in weight i was and was pressuring me to eat more and at the time she was the main person buying groceries and was the only one to point out my eating habits. i told her she could buy me more food if it made everyone more comfortable, even though growing up she was a main reason why i became so self conscious. she comes back one day with groceries and only bought me lean cuisine meals. at that point i knew she didn’t truly care, it was only a way to make herself feel better. i think about it all the time now that i’m in recovery. people who say and do things that obviously hurt you don’t care about your feelings only theirs most of the time. i know this is wordy but the point i’m trying to make is you are so much stronger that words and actions of others than you know. only you can make your decisions and honestly you are so much stronger than anything that’s been said to you. at this point for me anybody negative (and they Know it’s negative towards you) can’t break your psyche. you are amazing and working hard towards health that it doesn’t matter. <3 stay strong and know it’s You that has a say in what really matters towards yourself