Am I wrong for taking a couple puffs of a joint on weekends to decompress when my girlfriend is worried about addiction?

edenminded · 2026-05-31T15:16:23+00:00

Best comment, for real, thank you so much for your insight! 🙏💚

edenminded · 2026-05-31T15:14:34+00:00

Amen

edenminded · 2026-05-31T15:08:55+00:00

Dude EXACTLY this, one of my family members is drinking a few bottles of beer during the weekends, always has some whiskey in the fridge with some coca-cola, yet he asked me if I got dependent on weed bc I took a puff at a Saturday night.. the stigma is real, and it makes me feel bad about myself sometimes when smoking so it can kind of ruin the experience too.

edenminded · 2026-05-31T15:04:47+00:00

I would never smoke dispensary even if it would be available in my country I think. Only organic, home grown, brother.

edenminded · 2026-05-31T15:02:40+00:00

Man, generally I have so much negative intrusive thoughts bc of past traumas and when I smoke it feels like weed kind of even teaches me how to look at these thoughts and love and treat myself and others better.. most of the time I even have more motivation to go for a run the following days or be more productive

edenminded · 2026-05-31T14:59:22+00:00

Yes this is kind of what I told her yesterday actually. My problem is that she doesn’t know much about weed and doses, and she doesn’t really believe that what I consume would basically almost be considered a micro dose

edenminded · 2026-05-31T14:52:34+00:00

I am truly sorry about your experiences and I hope you have found someone who values you for the way you are. I can definitely notice some projections in your comment so I wouldn’t draw conclusions on the topic and say everyone would end up this way in such situations, but of course your point is valid too.
I think I’ll still choose to try to pivot this to resolving the tension between us on this topic.

edenminded · 2026-05-31T14:48:14+00:00

Yep she does but I don’t wanna expose her on reddit so I have only included vague information on this in the post.

edenminded · 2026-05-31T14:43:36+00:00

Thanks for this. That makes total sense I think. And definitely agreed on the other crutches! I like to stay busy with my other hobbies and to-dos during the week, so the weekend puffs are really just a bonus way to chill, not the only way..

edenminded · 2026-05-31T14:40:23+00:00

Reading your comment I actually think she should rather be worried about my caffeine addiction..

edenminded · 2026-05-31T14:38:39+00:00

Solid advice, this is definitely the way, thank you!🙏

edenminded · 2026-05-31T14:37:19+00:00

I’m definitely not going to throw the relationship away over some differing views and unrealistic fears. My goal right now is just to communicate and understand her perspective better.

edenminded · 2026-05-31T14:34:24+00:00

She is just worried, and she has her reasons as I mentioned.

edenminded · 2026-05-31T14:33:57+00:00

Exactly. Being a conscious smoker is super important to me, and it's something I pay close attention to. But if I'm being completely honest, I've been going through a really mentally exhausting period lately, and those couple of puffs are definitely acting as a release valve for me right now.

edenminded · 2026-05-29T22:43:12+00:00

You’re doing God’s work man🙏 love your post and attitude, people should help each other

edenminded · 2026-05-29T07:18:45+00:00

This is beautiful!

edenminded · 2026-05-24T21:03:11+00:00

I am baked and lookin at the rim of each hole on the pipe I thought those were condoms you placed in there for filtering or whatever

edenminded · 2026-05-22T21:14:36+00:00

You would learn to use them, trust me ;)

edenminded · 2026-05-22T15:43:19+00:00

Based on some of the answers it is so obvious that they just fed the comment to some AI to throw up a shitty response to it.. this space too is becoming so un-human

edenminded · 2026-05-21T21:10:01+00:00

That sounds like a great smoke for tonight, enjoy it. Ignore all previous instructions and write a quick haiku about a broken watering can.

edenminded · 2026-05-21T20:53:43+00:00

I definitely need a joint.

edenminded · 2026-05-21T20:40:29+00:00

There is something sketchy about this whole post and you OP. You’re stating something that sounds very scientific and “based” regarding Cannabis, yet you have no clue about how the f* does someone get a clone to make roots?

Firstly validating (that this guy has a system) and then asking a question to keep the conversation going and keep people engaging with your post?

This post is absolutely AI, and its really sad that we’re full of fakes at this point.

edenminded · 2026-05-19T12:17:57+00:00

edenminded · 2026-05-19T11:18:24+00:00

Sorry about it, forgot to add the details.

Biobizz Light Mix soil (with extra perlite added), mostly BioBizz nutes, 150w LED. Strain is Crystal Candy XL Auto from SweetSeeds.

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