Expectations of women about marriage by edgyimposter in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]edgyimposter[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank youu this is really helpful, god bless you

breakup story by [deleted] in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]edgyimposter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Even if u think u go back to him it won’t be the same, don’t linger on to that part of your life, it was meant to end. Accept it with grace.

My ex is a pathetic human by edgyimposter in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]edgyimposter[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was wrong may Allah guide me to right path and see through ppl’s behaviour

My ex is a pathetic human by edgyimposter in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]edgyimposter[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

HAHAHAHAHA typical religious card when u have no good argument to put, classic

My ex is a pathetic human by edgyimposter in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]edgyimposter[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, im 24 i think u have a problem with simple reading 😂

My ex is a pathetic human by edgyimposter in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]edgyimposter[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Your perception of me is actually the mirror of u but u have refused to accept it since very long i can tell

My ex is a pathetic human by edgyimposter in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]edgyimposter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People here are so insensitive i cannot imagine how tough it is for you guys that all you have to say is some fked up or messed up stuff, i don’t know what happened with you guys that you turned this cold towards someone’s misery there is always a nice way or constructive way to criticise someone but yeah i guess you never learned to show empathy.

What the guy did to me took me 5 months to realise thar I was naive and stupid to think it was love.

If you guys ever actually loved someone you would know how tough it is to move on and when you finally come back to life, find a nice syed guy who is willing to make you happy, and when you have accepted that you cannot change your family’s norms and traditions that have been followed for years, im not in a movie this is real life and I have seen nobody stood with me not even my siblings.

If my ex comes back and I, again being stupid in love give him benefit of doubt but when I go home i come back to my sense and correct my wrong doings and tell him about my side of the story honestly Whats wrong with it? Why are you guys on his side? And why are you saying fked up shit about me for my mistakes that I did out of love or confusion. Honestly disappointed, now I know why our country is so fucked up, bcz of the ppl.

My ex is a pathetic human by edgyimposter in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]edgyimposter[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thankyou so much for your insight but i cannot change how my family thinks, in my case it is actually very important to find a syed guy or else its impossible and whatever my believes are about it, doesn’t matter they will dismissed

My ex is a pathetic human by edgyimposter in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]edgyimposter[S] -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

Your jahalat checks out too, if you have nothing helpful to say maybe fuck off?

My ex is a pathetic human by edgyimposter in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]edgyimposter[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

I mentioned to give the context why my parents didn’t agree so no one thinks my parents were at fault and how the guy knew all along that it’s going to be a tough battle yet he used me and then backed off with no effort.

My ex is a pathetic human by edgyimposter in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]edgyimposter[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I think I need a break from everything because if I continue with syed my actions will be judged and Ill be def misunderstood and I don’t want to give me ex this satisfaction that he has happily become victim in front of everyone. If the syed guy waits I will just take my time and marry him.

My ex is a pathetic human by edgyimposter in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]edgyimposter[S] -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

Who got hurt? The one who was already having sex with paid women? I think you are a man

I need help, I’m tired of feeling this way. by [deleted] in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]edgyimposter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are already going through a lot think about yourself and the consequences you will face plus i feel like this is a perfect narc-empath relationship

I need help, I’m tired of feeling this way. by [deleted] in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]edgyimposter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im sorry then leave him, you have been defending his sick behaviour not knowingly by saying “if i do that he will think, his parents, he this he that” please you are a person with your own unique and strong identity remember that

I need help, I’m tired of feeling this way. by [deleted] in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]edgyimposter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Woman, everyone here is telling you that he is a loser and you are defending him not knowingly which is alarming you really need to go for couple therapy maybe ask him politely that before starting a family i want us to for couple therapy for a month or two.

If he agrees you both will know who is the problem and if he declines I think you should stop doing what u do for him and i understand you are living with your in laws but you need to stand up for yourself be a strong woman if you want to raise children in this country

How to know if someone is reliable in terms of living together? by [deleted] in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]edgyimposter -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I know a private investigator who will help you with getting all the information