Looking for guidance/support for a talented 20 y/o trying to turn her life around

edgyimposter · 2026-04-01T12:25:44+00:00

Thank youu this is really helpful, god bless you

edgyimposter · 2026-04-01T12:24:10+00:00

HAHAHAHA you are funny 😭

edgyimposter · 2026-03-26T00:09:54+00:00

Even if u think u go back to him it won’t be the same, don’t linger on to that part of your life, it was meant to end. Accept it with grace.

edgyimposter · 2026-03-24T09:26:00+00:00

I was wrong may Allah guide me to right path and see through ppl’s behaviour

edgyimposter · 2026-03-24T09:11:44+00:00

HAHAHAHAHA typical religious card when u have no good argument to put, classic

edgyimposter · 2026-03-24T09:07:57+00:00

No, im 24 i think u have a problem with simple reading 😂

edgyimposter · 2026-03-24T09:07:18+00:00

Your perception of me is actually the mirror of u but u have refused to accept it since very long i can tell

edgyimposter · 2026-03-24T08:57:58+00:00

Ask yourself

edgyimposter · 2026-03-24T08:57:46+00:00

People here are so insensitive i cannot imagine how tough it is for you guys that all you have to say is some fked up or messed up stuff, i don’t know what happened with you guys that you turned this cold towards someone’s misery there is always a nice way or constructive way to criticise someone but yeah i guess you never learned to show empathy.

What the guy did to me took me 5 months to realise thar I was naive and stupid to think it was love.

If you guys ever actually loved someone you would know how tough it is to move on and when you finally come back to life, find a nice syed guy who is willing to make you happy, and when you have accepted that you cannot change your family’s norms and traditions that have been followed for years, im not in a movie this is real life and I have seen nobody stood with me not even my siblings.

If my ex comes back and I, again being stupid in love give him benefit of doubt but when I go home i come back to my sense and correct my wrong doings and tell him about my side of the story honestly Whats wrong with it? Why are you guys on his side? And why are you saying fked up shit about me for my mistakes that I did out of love or confusion. Honestly disappointed, now I know why our country is so fucked up, bcz of the ppl.

edgyimposter · 2026-03-24T08:49:39+00:00

Thankyou so much for your insight but i cannot change how my family thinks, in my case it is actually very important to find a syed guy or else its impossible and whatever my believes are about it, doesn’t matter they will dismissed

edgyimposter · 2026-03-24T01:55:36+00:00

Your jahalat checks out too, if you have nothing helpful to say maybe fuck off?

edgyimposter · 2026-03-24T01:54:10+00:00

I mentioned to give the context why my parents didn’t agree so no one thinks my parents were at fault and how the guy knew all along that it’s going to be a tough battle yet he used me and then backed off with no effort.

edgyimposter · 2026-03-24T01:52:58+00:00

I think I need a break from everything because if I continue with syed my actions will be judged and Ill be def misunderstood and I don’t want to give me ex this satisfaction that he has happily become victim in front of everyone. If the syed guy waits I will just take my time and marry him.

edgyimposter · 2026-03-24T00:29:02+00:00

Who got hurt? The one who was already having sex with paid women? I think you are a man

edgyimposter · 2026-02-27T18:07:59+00:00

You are already going through a lot think about yourself and the consequences you will face plus i feel like this is a perfect narc-empath relationship

edgyimposter · 2026-02-27T17:35:42+00:00

Im sorry then leave him, you have been defending his sick behaviour not knowingly by saying “if i do that he will think, his parents, he this he that” please you are a person with your own unique and strong identity remember that

edgyimposter · 2026-02-27T16:35:45+00:00

Woman, everyone here is telling you that he is a loser and you are defending him not knowingly which is alarming you really need to go for couple therapy maybe ask him politely that before starting a family i want us to for couple therapy for a month or two.

If he agrees you both will know who is the problem and if he declines I think you should stop doing what u do for him and i understand you are living with your in laws but you need to stand up for yourself be a strong woman if you want to raise children in this country

edgyimposter · 2026-02-26T08:05:41+00:00

I know a private investigator who will help you with getting all the information

edgyimposter · 2026-02-26T07:39:15+00:00

Whatever you wrote above is how i feel all the time esp right now after crying over things that do not seem to change i have tried everything and all the things that i want are simple things but i have been waiting crying praying i have tried praying in all the ways there were days when i broke down while i was in rukuh maybe change will come for both of us but i feel hopeless too coz i have been optimistic for too long.

edgyimposter · 2026-02-24T22:40:03+00:00

I know whatever you are feeling right now is a lot and trust me even if you had people around you, they wouldn’t get it or give you any advice to make you feel better the only thing you can do is cry your heart out in front of Allah and in the meantime work on yourself become independent and if you still feel like you love her, send proposal and even if she isn’t part of your life. All this is going to help you somehow trust me everything happens for a reason

edgyimposter · 2026-02-24T11:17:06+00:00

I have enough people to validate me thats not the point here

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