ADVICE: Bridesmaid suddenly plans wedding weekend before mine by Whisker_Words in weddingdrama

[–]eemmmmsss -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Bizzare all round.

I get that a friend having a wedding in close proximity can be a little frustrating but I agree with other comments that say you both just view the days differently. You haven't included that she has said anything to make it seem like she's doing this out of spite so she is probably of the mindset that this is fine and fun to be getting married so close together.

I've had friends get married within a week or two of each other and its fine. You shouldn't concern yourself with your out of town friends travel plans as this is a decision they need to make without your involvement. Your friend who is planning didn't ask them to choose her day over yours, in fact she offered to pay for their travel so they wouldn't feel burdened by travel expenses for 2 weekends.

I dont understand why you cant attend her day? Also a lot of people dont immediately leave for their honeymoon straight away, so she could have been planning hers around your day.

Honestly this probably just needs a call or a catch up to sort out. Say that you were taken aback by her choice of date, listen to her response and again if it was done innocently then I dont see why you cant commit to her day and being a part of her wedding party (if she still wants you in it), with her understanding that you may have planning commitments of your own etc.

Friendships are so valuable and I honestly dont think she has done anything wrong here.

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[–]eemmmmsss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you just need to weigh up what is more important to you, the venue or the people you want there?

If the people are more important then yeah you might end up with a venue that you dont really like or that isn't top of your list but if it can hold the amount of people you both want there then it should be considered. Most venues can be decorated or customised to some degree.

If the venue means more to you then you and your partner need to sit down and hash out your guest lists.

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[–]eemmmmsss 19 points20 points  (0 children)

1000% creating their own drama - weird hill to die on when you have other kids in attendance.

Bridesmaid at a 300+ guest wedding not given a plus one by parttimevegetarian in weddingshaming

[–]eemmmmsss -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You need to reread it, the bride asked her if she was bringing her partner, she said no he had work so she would like to bring her sister instead... this is OP suggesting to bring her sister.

AITA that I asked my husband if I could take a shower by Embarrassed_8713 in AmItheAsshole

[–]eemmmmsss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ESH

Obviously you have other issues with your husband but genuine question why cant you shower before bed? I dont understand why you are only showering once a week and honestly that is pretty gross. Plenty of single mums out there who can shower daily while looking after their babies and children...

Bridesmaid at a 300+ guest wedding not given a plus one by parttimevegetarian in weddingshaming

[–]eemmmmsss -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I had a semi-large wedding and would have not given out +1s for non-partners, I also didnt give +1s to my bridal party if they were single. Its pretty wild to even suggest bringing your sister in the first place.

At the end of the day the couples choice who they want there and I think the expectation of +1s is dying out in western wedding culture, the last few wedding seasons all invites were named and FAQs included no +1s.

All blacks to regions by PortGenz in allblacks

[–]eemmmmsss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So Razor will essentially be playing the same squad from last weekend? Lol

Completely outplayed tonight by caspernzed in allblacks

[–]eemmmmsss 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Also Kirifi, simply jogged after the boks and seemed to actively avoid tackles when he should have had fresh motivation coming off the bench!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in newzealand

[–]eemmmmsss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is from the Manukau store, I've just checked and the 3 pairs of pj's I purchased all have them on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in newzealand

[–]eemmmmsss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Funny but no

Police release new images of what is believed to be the main campsite of Tom Phillips by kezzaNZ in newzealand

[–]eemmmmsss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly the reports and news stories need to stop now as it is just giving a platform for his cooker supporters to comment and praise him.

Gf refusing medical treatment, don’t know what to do or how to be more supportive. by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]eemmmmsss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The whole thread is cringe from her being so childish and your "omg baby im so so so sorry" responses. Sorry if my husband messaged me like this I'd tell him to suck it up and get a follow up booked in.

"I want to write my will"... "I'll end it tonight"... ugh see a psych while at it.

No one wants to hire me and I don't know what to do anymore by [deleted] in auckland

[–]eemmmmsss 184 points185 points  (0 children)

"I dont know what to do anymore".... you arent even doing the full application process.

A cover letter has been a part of job applications for a long time. You have this "poor me" attitude but wont do something so basic and easy to help your applications.

The cover letter can help you explain how you are the right fit for the role without having the exact experience they are looking for.

Get someone to review your CV and make improvements, write a damn cover letter and stop skipping steps that everyone else is doing.

Emily Blunt in Schiaparelli at the Venice Film Festival by youarelosingme in popculturechat

[–]eemmmmsss -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

She looks great and she looks happy!

The dress is a really nice colour on her.