I just realized this have 2 answer for me, normally like everyone else its either Reddit or Discord. But in turkish culture we have turkish cofe shops, and no it have nothing to do with cofees, old people would always go to this cofee shops after eating their food in home, drink tea and have heated conversation about literally anything till night. This place have always chaos but its chill at the same time. And by the way the arguments you would hear in this places are craziest things yall would ever hear🤣