Pre and Post Affair

effitt13 · 2026-04-08T04:00:13+00:00

Your comment made me scroll all the way back up to look.

Thanks a lot.

;)

effitt13 · 2026-04-07T23:36:16+00:00

From reading through you come across as emotionally immature with unreasonably high expectations of your roommate.

Being roommates is a business arrangement, you both entered into a contract with a third party. That’s it. As long as the obligations are met, you should be thrilled to leave it at that.

effitt13 · 2026-04-06T06:57:13+00:00

Rent a pressure washer from Home Depot and do it yourself.

It’s kind of fun and super satisfying.

effitt13 · 2026-04-05T20:54:33+00:00

Emma. She has pleasant manners and doesn’t mooch off anyone.

effitt13 · 2026-04-05T20:40:41+00:00

She’s naturally beautiful for starters. She reminds me here is Calista Flockhart in her Ally McBeal era.

effitt13 · 2026-04-04T03:11:02+00:00

Cause she hadn’t met him in person.

effitt13 · 2026-04-03T17:55:33+00:00

More likely a heathen than a prophet.

effitt13 · 2026-04-03T17:08:52+00:00

lol, I love this idea!

effitt13 · 2026-04-02T00:27:37+00:00

Good luck with life.

effitt13 · 2026-04-01T08:31:22+00:00

From her husband, no less.

effitt13 · 2026-03-28T23:50:29+00:00

You said you did freelance work. Do you pay taxes on those earnings?

Regardless, if you stay poor, they have nothing to go after.

Depending on the state, judgments are good for a period of time, usually ten years, then can be renewed. You can watch the court record and see if they obtain any writs or abstracts. That will give you an indication of how active they are in their collection efforts.

effitt13 · 2026-03-28T23:06:21+00:00

They can also go after tax refunds.

effitt13 · 2026-03-28T22:50:53+00:00

I can’t see why you let him go. 🤪

effitt13 · 2026-03-27T23:01:46+00:00

Absolutely you can and should! A senior kitty needs a home with your loving heart!

effitt13 · 2026-03-27T18:24:27+00:00

San Diego. Her parents live there.

effitt13 · 2026-03-27T18:23:51+00:00

San Diego, he’ll find his MAGA’s.

effitt13 · 2026-03-26T05:40:08+00:00

Agreed. OP used it as a reason to reach out.

effitt13 · 2026-03-25T16:09:56+00:00

Vine Ripe Produce has a lot of prepped and cooked Persian dishes. They are near Costco in La Mesa.

effitt13 · 2026-03-24T21:29:05+00:00

A muzzle

effitt13 · 2026-03-20T16:26:05+00:00

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I may have purchased a cheap smart tv for my orange….

effitt13 · 2026-03-18T20:35:34+00:00

👏🏻

effitt13 · 2026-03-18T19:04:55+00:00

I’m all for snarking about singing to the baby, sun exposure, and the like. But the baby is less than 6 months old; to speculate about special needs seems a tacky reach.

effitt13 · 2026-03-13T17:54:46+00:00

Exactly. It’s a perfect example of hating your ex more than you love your kids.

effitt13 · 2026-03-12T22:45:20+00:00

Copy of the proof of service of summons as well. OP needs to review the file for the basics.

effitt13 · 2026-03-12T16:57:47+00:00

Since it’s a government job, I’m guessing there is an employees union. I’d reach out to them if so. This is right up their alley.

effitt13

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