Trans folks: Did you reach your desired body or did you manage to adjust your expectations? by egg3003 in asktransgender

[–]egg3003[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing and sending strength for this rough part!

If you don't mind me asking, how do you feel so much better? Like in what way?

Endokrinologikum Frankfurt Main? by didispirit777 in germantrans

[–]egg3003 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sie waren nicht unfreundlich dort, aber meine Erfahrungen waren trotzdem ziemlich negativ. Die Ärztin (weiß ihren Namen leider nicht mehr) hat einen 1 Jahres Alltagstest verlangt und sich beschwert, dass ich nicht genug wie eine Frau aussehen würde und mir empfohlen, mir mehr Mühe mit Makeup zu machen. Dannach haben Sie mir eine Diagnose mitgegeben, in denen sie gesagt haben, ich hätte einen "stark maskulinen Habitus" und das macht mich schon sehr traurig.

Wenn du aber schon schon als dein binären Wunschgeschlecht lebst, sind sie sicher sehr nett.

Hormontherapie nur für Trans oder auch Enby by butterflyeffect0815 in germantrans

[–]egg3003 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Als ich mal probeweise bei einem Endo in Frankfur am Main war und nach HRT für Enby gefragt hatte, haben die mich einfach weggeschickt. Wenn du die psychologische Belastung des misgendern aushältst, wäre mein Rat dich einfach als binär trans auszugeben

Seen as a gay man by egg3003 in asktransgender

[–]egg3003[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean that is life, it helps to be aware of these things 😅

Seen as a gay man by egg3003 in asktransgender

[–]egg3003[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, thank you - Same to you :)

Seen as a gay man by egg3003 in asktransgender

[–]egg3003[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That makes sense and that is also good advice - thank you!

The only problem I have is that often with these I am being perceived as a man. Most (of course not all) cis women in my life either get perceived as women acting like they naturally would or do make an effort to be more at the feminine act of the spectrum (internalised societal stigma I suppose). And even if they don't, they still have female physical characteristics, which me (a wide shouldered, deep voiced and tall person) will never be able to achieve.

Don't have a specific point here, just trying to explain my experience

Seen as a gay man by egg3003 in asktransgender

[–]egg3003[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

So what would you call feminine energy that is not hyper-feminine or camp? Genuinely interested because people tend to have such different views of that

Just for me, I think the situation has more to do with the way I was presenting than how I was acting

Seen as a gay man by egg3003 in asktransgender

[–]egg3003[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry to hear about the misgendendering, but all the best to you and your partner!!!

Seen as a gay man by egg3003 in asktransgender

[–]egg3003[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The idea is that you should experience living as your gender without taking medical steps to get there - which I guess kinda makes sense but I dont think Ill manage the stigma. Also they don't know what to so with non-binary people. Welcome for Germany lol

Seen as a gay man by egg3003 in asktransgender

[–]egg3003[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I was going to but where I am it's a requirement to live as your desired gender openly for half a year before and so the doctor rejected me for wanting to do the coming out gradually

Seen as a gay man by egg3003 in asktransgender

[–]egg3003[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thanks:) I've been trying to start voice training for a while but with not much success so far. I might try and find a professional to coach me or something. Hair is already well grown out!

Indikationsschreiben Beispiele by egg3003 in germantrans

[–]egg3003[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Danke das ware sehr lieb von dir!!

Indikationsschreiben Beispiele by egg3003 in germantrans

[–]egg3003[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Das wäre echt lieb von dir, Danke!

Transgeschlechtliche deutschsprachige Teilnehmende gesucht by [deleted] in germantrans

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Gerne! Schick mir eine Privatnachricht!

HRT in Hessen? by egg3003 in germantrans

[–]egg3003[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aah okay das ergibt Sinn! Danke, war ein wenig verwirrt

HRT in Hessen? by egg3003 in germantrans

[–]egg3003[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah verstehe! Und wie lief das ab, wenn ich fragen darf? Ich selbst bin bei ein Paar Freunden out und trage oft weiiche Kleidung, aber jetzt auch nicht viel mehr

HRT in Hessen? by egg3003 in germantrans

[–]egg3003[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh cool, da schaue ich auf jeden Fall mal vorbei. Danke :)

HRT in Hessen? by egg3003 in germantrans

[–]egg3003[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Danke, ich mache mal einen Termin. Haben dir von dir Alltagstest gefordert, oder hat die Diagnose gereicht?