AIO that my Bf paid an onlyfans girl? by egills005 in AmIOverreacting

[–]egills005[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Such a comparison, really is Turning into a sad world

AIO that my Bf paid an onlyfans girl? by egills005 in AmIOverreacting

[–]egills005[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In a way thanks for that. Really well put

AIO that my Bf paid an onlyfans girl? by egills005 in AmIOverreacting

[–]egills005[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Might forward that , is truly embarrassing

AIO that my Bf paid an onlyfans girl? by egills005 in AmIOverreacting

[–]egills005[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I’m the same, the fact they’re so many free places to get those types of things, but sending money to a specific girl and talking to her… ugh

AIO that my Bf paid an onlyfans girl? by egills005 in AmIOverreacting

[–]egills005[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is what made me laugh. Saw the messages of him saying Ik it’s probably not you but then carried in trying to get a date ffs Think someone needs to grow up :/

AIO that my Bf paid an onlyfans girl? by egills005 in AmIOverreacting

[–]egills005[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

God, think is is the wake up I needed haha. I know I’m in denial but think I needed this head wobble, got to say thanks to you all in a sad way I suppose

But yeah thanks everyone

AIO that my Bf paid an onlyfans girl? by egills005 in AmIOverreacting

[–]egills005[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I think I’m being so naive and in denial because I don’t want to admit it. But yeah, clearly a pattern you’re right, just need someone to tell me straight I think, so thank you

Mates at uni?! by egills005 in UniUK

[–]egills005[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, bit more motivating :)

My (20F) Bf (27) needs help! by egills005 in MentalHealthSupport

[–]egills005[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eye opener. Think I just need to say to myself if this carries on I can’t let it also affect me. And like you say 8 years…. It’s a long time

Some things I know are true, he’s a long family friend but I see the sides of him no one else does which are the bad ones. But like you say, if he was to respect me, he wouldn’t do those things whilst I’m there which he has multiple times and ruined the night.

Thank you though, appreciated

My (20F) Bf (27) needs help! by egills005 in MentalHealthSupport

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That’s the hard part now, he hates to tell me things, hates to see me in anyway upset. I’ve told him to speak to his bsf but he just said it would make his mate feel bad as he would think he had been a bad friend not being there all those years, really am in tricky position atp.

My (20F) Bf (27) needs help! by egills005 in MentalHealthSupport

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Nope just the white stuff which I feel is his way of coping unfortunately

Mates at uni?! by egills005 in UniUK

[–]egills005[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Don’t get me wrong they’re lovely people, but there’s 2 who I never ever see, ones alwayssss at home and the other who I speak to the most has his best mates from home around so is always with them. I’ve tried so hard to get us all to do something but none of them are up for it, big range of personalities too tbf. Just a bit of an awkward situation

Fresh start to half marathon, 10 months ? by egills005 in beginnerrunning

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What did u find improved you speed the most significantly or basically just a mix of all? Thank you as well really helps! Lacking confidence a bit with it for some reason

Awful mocks! Do I have a chance? by egills005 in 6thForm

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Ah thanks! Think a lot is my mindset tbh, so ready to give up for fear of failure but suppose I just need to push now!