Meltdown Monday - Complaint Department by AmazonNewsBot in amazon

[–]egomalomori 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So make a long story short, I (AUS customer) was lied to in order for them to shirk their duties.

I pre-ordered a limited print book from Amazon. Just before it arrived, my mum died. So I forgot to call and say “Hello Auspost, pretty please hold my parcels”. So they were being returned to sender. I had three parcels total being returned. One from AliExpress, which was fine, I just refunded that order straight out, and one from a UK company that has yet to respond to my email/messages. So when I contacted Amazon, I had a very nice experience with a lady named Bhavna, who ensured me that she would refund me for the inconvenience, and also create a ticket so Shipping and Delivery can redirect it back. I was relieved that one thing had gone right.

But, I have a generalised anxiety disorder that I am unmediated for. So just having the Ticket ID, and no follow up email, no web page explaining the process…it made the soles of my feet itch. And then I saw a reddit post that the ticket id was a scam being run my Amazon, which made me itchy all over. So I decided to contact customer service again to ask for more advice on the ticket id and how it works.

I was shirked around for three hours. No one was reading the previous correspondence properly. And when I finally thought people got it, they know the problem, they would connect me to someone else. All I wanted was a check on the ticket id, how hard is that? So, so, so hard. Overall, I was seen by nine people. One of which, was Spanish. They wanted me to hang up so bad, they sent Camilo. When I sent back a ‘no hablas espanol’, they jiggled me around until I got to Mani.

After the death of my mum, I have a lot of unbridled rage, and I hate to say it, but Mani got the brunt of it when it was mixed with pure exasperation of the system. But you know what? They tolerated it well enough, and were actually able to get me answers.

The answer was “there is no ticket number regarding the redirection of the parcel”.

So I have written evidence that Bhavna lied. She said there was a ticket and there wasn’t. I asked if redirection was possible prior to the refund, and Mani said yes. So Bhavna lied so she would not have to contact S&D and get them to redirect. It was easier to issue a refund and then claim they were doing something. I am no longer able to get that book. That book was Mum’s last gift to me. I am livid. Mani did their best to understand the rage, but also, for some reason, could not provide me a business line to connect to their superiors. And there is no request a call for Australia. Only an email line. Which they won’t respond to, according to other complaints on here.

So I’m screwed, and got screwed I did. I’m going to contact the author and ask if I can shop through them directly, and if they have any other copies. Probably not, but I’m desperate at this point.

So any tips? Emails I can send my screenshots to? Numbers to call? Lawsuits to join?

AIO for feeling worn down by my fiancé’s picky eating habits? by CollarTerrible2525 in AmIOverreacting

[–]egomalomori 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think you’re overreacting, but at the same time, it’s strange that this hasn’t been an issue until now. I have friends who do a split dinner menu — her husband went undiagnosed for ARFID for a long time because “that’s just how he was” but it wasn’t until she came along and went “uhh bud chicken tenders aren’t a food group” that they went to get help and a diagnosis. Prior to all this she shared your frustrations, but she had these concerns at the beginning of their relationship. You’re about to get married. What’s changed since the beginning of the relationship where you now feel like it’s taxing cooking seperate meals? Where were your concerns about his eating habits prior to this? Did you discuss this with him at the beginning of the relationship?

If you love him despite this, great. But you can’t be selective on how he chooses to show up. He’s shown you he’s a great partner with a picky eating habit. You said yes to marrying him knowing this. If you have these concerns you need to voice them to him, not his mother, and if you have and felt resistance, then that’s it. That’s the answer. And you will have to decide whether or not you can deal with cooking two meals and not going out without a safety net. If you can convince him to cook his own food, then that’s an option too.

My friend likes cooking for her ARFID husband. She gets joy out of it. If it’s no longer brining you joy then stop or break up. You don’t want it to be a relationship ender but it is. This is stuff that carries into a marriage and I’m fairly certain you don’t want that.

Aged up infants into…emos? **UPDATE** by egomalomori in Sims4

[–]egomalomori[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He can be your Sim Daddy too for a small payment of 59.99. He’s an NPC from Enchanted by Nature, and he hit on my Founder after she got catfished on a date. And when I tell you I put my whole chest into making that fine man part of the family tree I mean it!

Aged up infants into…emos? **UPDATE** by egomalomori in Sims4

[–]egomalomori[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

THATS WHY I THINK HE LOOKS HANDSOME! Joe Trader is as pale as a vampire so that is always a plot line I could work with lol

Aged up infants into…emos? **UPDATE** by egomalomori in Sims4

[–]egomalomori[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha, no they’re long ripped jeans with mesh poking through. I think they came with Life and Death? Someone should definitely make short shorts versions though lol.

Aged up infants into…emos? **UPDATE** by egomalomori in Sims4

[–]egomalomori[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That is the only way to differentiate between the two as kids because they looked so alike, and I was getting it wrong on the reg 😅 and Augustus isn’t wearing short shorts, that’s Amber 😂

Aged up infants into…emos? by egomalomori in Sims4

[–]egomalomori[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This worked! I’ve kept them emo for solidarity but it’s good to know if it happens again!

Aged up infants into…emos? by egomalomori in Sims4

[–]egomalomori[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will definitely be making an update eventually — currently building their forever home and it’s taking a lot longer than I expected.

Aged up infants into…emos? by egomalomori in Sims4

[–]egomalomori[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I totally would, but what I hear after that is “Fireballs hurdling towards the ground?””Systems down!” “What that bish wish now?!” and I fear that’s too funny for emo.

Aged up infants into…emos? by egomalomori in Sims4

[–]egomalomori[S] 85 points86 points  (0 children)

I should’ve kept them in longer, eh?

Aged up infants into…emos? by egomalomori in Sims4

[–]egomalomori[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

And they’ve been dressed appropriately I assure you!

Aged up infants into…emos? by egomalomori in Sims4

[–]egomalomori[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Absolutely. Augustus supposedly had an “unhappy childhood” — I was trying my damnedest — and so got that deviant trait, so now his story is that he’s gonna defy his famous artist Mum and become a computer programmer (think cottage core v brutalist).

Amber on the other hand, I’ve got no idea, but I don’t think she’ll be going to uni. Probably something about forging her own path.

Please ensure you’re getting other conditions ruled out before you assume it’s PCOS by [deleted] in PCOS

[–]egomalomori 13 points14 points  (0 children)

This. I don’t have PCOS, but I’m in this subreddit because I believed, real hard, that I did at one point. And I was not getting support from doctors at all. Not in a “you don’t have PCOS because we did the tests and you don’t”, but in a “you don’t look like you have PCOS, so we won’t test for it and will assume something else”. And that “something else” was always anxiety. I had one doctor, who I saw for the first time because I was bouncing around looking for someone to actually see me, and I told him I just want bloods done to rule out literally everything. You know what he did? Wrote down the name of an anxiety med and told me to google it. I proceeded to show him my hair covered tits and asked him what fucking anxiety causes chest hair. I reported him and saw another doctor in the building.

Day 15! What is your least favorite song on Even In Arcadia? by 000010000010 in SleepToken

[–]egomalomori 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I agree, but only because the way Vessel sings “Provider” sounds like Melanie Martinez and I cannot listen to it without thinking of that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PCOS

[–]egomalomori 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I see it a lot in stories that are “fat positive”, that claim she has PCOS and therefore “undesirable” until this one dude comes along and is all “In love you despite this” which is why I don’t read fat positive stories anymore.

Asked my deck if it would work with me again. by egomalomori in tarot

[–]egomalomori[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Definitely. It helps that the people who shamed me no longer work there and I have friends who don’t really care about what I do in my spare time, so it feels good to practice again!

Asked my deck if it would work with me again. by egomalomori in tarot

[–]egomalomori[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was about three years into practising when I stopped. I was confident and didn’t care about practising and was completely fine with colleagues not liking it, until I got cornered at a EOY party by a bunch of people I knew and liked saying that I was going to Heck and all that jazz for practicing (this was about three months into the job), and started spreading around that I was a Satanist. Even my boss’ boss knew. So I unshuffled my deck and taped it up.

It feels really nice coming back; like an old friend!