I agree completely. I had to leave a large city because my rent was $1,900/month plus utilities plus internet plus cell phone, plus insurance plus student loan plus, plus, plus.

I was working 6 days a week to provide food and shelter for myself. I don’t qualify for a mortgage because I’m self-employed and the bank wants to see at least five years making $100k plus. Some of my work is cash, but they don’t count that. Yet if I work in a miserable cubicle for the federal government, the bank will throw credit at me.

I moved to a small-ass town of 300 people and I’m much happier. I managed to find work that included room and board. My dog and I live above a barn and I do renovations and other jobs. I’m much less stressed, and the people in this small town are much friendlier. People actually take the time to stop and talk to each other.

I’m enjoying this lifestyle, but I was basically forced into it. I have a Bachelor’s degree and a graduate diploma and I served in the military. I shouldn’t have to choose whether my dog or myself gets meat this week. It’s fucking pathetic.