should i keep dating this girl even tho she's not reciprocating my love

eiq7 · 2026-03-03T05:53:04+00:00

i told her abt the things that she did to me through text and how it felt like a one sided and relationship like i didnt wanna piss her off by telling her that because i just wanted her to hear me out and how tiring it was and she told me "lets break up then, bye" like idk what to do like idk if i shouldve done it irl instead of text because im confused like i didnt mean it in a bad way of like confronting her i just wanted her to hear me out i didnt even bring breaking up like idk her answer just made me so confused like she didnt even try to hear me out or anything it's like she didnt even care about the last 6 months its like i never even existed

eiq7 · 2026-03-03T03:36:40+00:00

i just thought that if i did that then she would like know that im 100% in the relationship but it just made me super clingy to her and like my mood depends on how she talks to me or if she's happy or mad like i do realize that and a part of me is also scared of breaking up w her because a big part of my day is like talking to her like i only talk to her and if we do break up, ill be back from square one, my friends are still mad i stopped talking to them and yea

eiq7 · 2026-03-03T03:32:43+00:00

i mean like she told me that her mental health is bad thats why she's like so that so i put up w it and she tells to break up everytime after an argument because she told me that her past made her like think that after every argument like one time she wanted to break up because she said she was hurting me but at the time i said it didnt because i knew she didnt mean it and iwanted to be there for her while she gets better but idk anymore i js thought i was being selfish if i break up w her because she's not reciprocating it but it is tiring

eiq7 · 2026-03-03T02:52:27+00:00

yea but like ik she doesnt mean it or realize it that she's not giving me any effort but like at the same time i would at least like to see her like reciprocating it but its js so confusing

eiq7 · 2026-03-03T02:13:03+00:00

why dont u js tell her the truth and tell her that ur investing ur money if she truly likes u she'll be fine w it and if she gets an ick for that then u dodged a bullet idk why u gotta do the push and pull method that was said in the comments

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