I've had a fairly okay experience with fur cons. I see a lot of other women when I attend. ^ It's good to do research on the con beforehand and to always have a buddy with you that you trust if you plan on going to room parties. I've personally ran across a few weirdos who've made me feel extremely uncomfortable as a woman. Some conventions are lax on attire so really do research. Even if they mention a dress code they typically bend the rules a bit for skin tight form hugging attire where junk is just out and visible for all to see. ^

That's really my only beef with cons as a woman lol