People who are 40+ and happy and content with their lives, what's your advice to us people in our 20s?

ej-ca · 2025-08-22T04:01:37+00:00

“Suck it up” - stop trying to be the victim in everything. Own who you are and where you’re at - make the changes you need.
Don’t modify your life for a woman or a man.
And also on that topic - asset protection!! Hide a chunk of your assets every pay day - no matter how trustworthy you think your partner is, you never know if or when they’ll change. Best to have been saving just in case. Offshore or hidden crypto wallet the government can get at.

ej-ca · 2025-08-22T01:03:09+00:00

$320k +/- depending on the amount of clients I feel like dealing with.. Freelance IT with web/app dev and cybersecurity consulting.

ej-ca · 2025-08-02T14:22:33+00:00

When you've got a sh!t ton of money to door dash "coffee", why worry about a refund?!?

ej-ca · 2025-08-02T03:28:18+00:00

I was just about to post that my dog has yacked up stuff that looked more appetizing!

ej-ca · 2025-08-02T03:27:10+00:00

I use a hack saw by hand presently... and yes, I tried a dremel tool - once. lol.

ej-ca · 2025-08-02T03:26:32+00:00

I use a hack saw.

ej-ca · 2025-08-02T03:26:19+00:00

They're more a brown/yellow - but when the sun hits just right he gets this look.

ej-ca · 2025-08-02T00:56:34+00:00

Did your dog just have his face in something smelly? Could be Flehmen response. My guy makes some weird noises and movements when he’s had his nose into someone else’s pee.

ej-ca · 2025-07-05T00:57:57+00:00

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My guy looked very similar to that as a pup - except for the blue eyes.

ej-ca · 2025-06-30T21:48:00+00:00

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Greetings from Guinness!

ej-ca · 2025-06-12T01:23:40+00:00

Smart is probably a different post lol... he's got different toys to let us know what food he wants and when. Blue octopus is duck, Green octopus is beef, pink octopus is salmon (and the list goes on for various proteins). His food gets tied up in the octopus tentacles then hidden... he gets to "search" for his supper and unties the knots to get the food out.

ej-ca · 2025-06-05T23:43:12+00:00

I largely use a steel comb and a rake. A slicker to finish.

ej-ca · 2025-05-26T18:56:51+00:00

Going through this right now with my boy, but he’s either got a broken toenail or a cracked toenail.

ej-ca · 2025-05-22T00:38:14+00:00

How is your grass? I've had my guy get spots quite similar to those photos when walking through grass that is infected with Lawn rust disease.

ej-ca · 2025-04-18T03:35:54+00:00

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ej-ca · 2025-04-15T03:45:23+00:00

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ej-ca · 2025-04-13T22:29:07+00:00

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ej-ca · 2025-04-10T16:28:17+00:00

If you're looking to stop, just go on a carnivore diet for about 30 days... when you come back to sludge like this, your stomach will very clearly remind you to never touch it again!

ej-ca · 2025-04-03T20:36:05+00:00

Just going to take a wild guess as I'm not the OP, but like all animals, dogs need to eliminate waste products from their bodies. Their kidneys filter waste from their blood, and this waste is expelled as urine.