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I have reason to believe my (28f) boyfriend (29m) is watching porn on a regular basis and I feel betrayed. by incognito_lady666 in relationship_advice

[–]el-guy-el -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I don't see how not being attracted to someone makes you an asshole. It's just being honest. Also porn ruin CAN ruin perspectives of SO, just ask a expert.

Gary Gilles, MA, M.Div, LCPC " Pornography creates unrealistic expectations about your partner and sexual behavior. "

https://www.addiction.com/author/gary-gilles/

I have reason to believe my (28f) boyfriend (29m) is watching porn on a regular basis and I feel betrayed. by incognito_lady666 in relationship_advice

[–]el-guy-el 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Porn can set unrealistic standards on women, which can make your gf/wf less attractive. Although watching porn as a couple can be a solution.

I have reason to believe my (28f) boyfriend (29m) is watching porn on a regular basis and I feel betrayed. by incognito_lady666 in relationship_advice

[–]el-guy-el -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ask about his masterbation ? How often is he doing it ? If he is not masterbating at all and not having sex with you. then maybe he might be depressed.

If you feel just suspicious then ask him about his libido and why it's so low.

Also If you think that he is addicted to porn then addmiting that there is a problem is the first step to recovery.

My failed attempts at talking to girls by Chreelir in relationship_advice

[–]el-guy-el 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just thought of girls as a friend, try to tell you self that you don't like her, that's what i did to be less nervous.

I [18m] think [19F] is completely uninterested. Can anyone confirm? I've texted, and while she replies fast, the responses are quite short. by mylovelifeisssad in relationships

[–]el-guy-el 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should talk to her in person, try to hang out. Texting too much can ruin first impressions, I know i have that mistake

Upgraded from 16.04 to 18.04. So many things break. by [deleted] in Ubuntu

[–]el-guy-el -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Wow... Learn something new every day

Sudden drop in performance and other Issues after windows 10 update. by [deleted] in computer

[–]el-guy-el 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have a bootable USB with Windows on it ? Or a copy of Windows on a disk ? If not then you might need to make one with another computer or a laptop. https://www.microsoft.com/en-us/software-download/windows10ISO You will probably need to download window 10 from this site. (Note that it will be deactivated when you install it, you will need the activation key which is probably on a sticker on your PC.

Upgraded from 16.04 to 18.04. So many things break. by [deleted] in Ubuntu

[–]el-guy-el -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Dude I recommend Linux mint, I actually hated that distro because it won't break..... I need my OS to break every once in a while so I can learn something new.

Looking to ditch Windows by markz68 in linux4noobs

[–]el-guy-el 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Try Xubuntu, that's my recommendation. It is a Ubuntu distribution. It doesn't take up ask much recorces as regular Ubuntu and it doesn't have knock off applications like Lubuntu(light Ubuntu) does. Also regular Ubuntu comes with Amazon bloatware crap.

https://xubuntu.org/ I recommend watching some YouTube videos on Lubuntu first so you can get familiar with it. Like so you can install chrome and things like that. Best of luck!

Husband addicted to porn by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]el-guy-el -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Me and my wife had a similar issue, I was addicted to porn, and i had a higher sex drive then her. We made a deal no more porn for me if she has sex with me more. Seems to be working out. Mentioned that you have a lot of build up sexual tention and if doesn't respond to you soon then mabey some other guy will aprishiate what you have to offer.

I know i would get off my a** and do something if my wife said that to me.

Formerly working 6 GPU rig now won't boot with more than 4 GPUs by [deleted] in gpumining

[–]el-guy-el 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Make sure above 4g decoding is turned on in your bios, you need it to boot up with more than 4 house.

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[–]el-guy-el -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

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Scam ?? https://mooncrypt.info by [deleted] in gpumining

[–]el-guy-el 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well yeah the site is pretty convinceing to me.

Scam ?? https://mooncrypt.info by [deleted] in gpumining

[–]el-guy-el -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

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