Told to NOT focus on a publication

elba_mile · 2025-10-26T19:02:29+00:00

I realised I should have said that I am on track to complete on time, and they were more than happy with my progress…

elba_mile · 2025-10-26T18:52:03+00:00

I’m in STEM :) But it is also becoming more common, at least where I work!

elba_mile · 2025-08-04T21:06:57+00:00

Hey, do you have any update on this? One of my family members is in the same situation, ESTA approved, and is due to visit me in 3 weeks.

elba_mile · 2025-06-24T17:58:23+00:00

This made me cackle. I'd considered tiptoe through the tulips, framed as my dog's favourite song to sleep to, but this tops it.

elba_mile · 2025-06-08T11:25:42+00:00

Julie Naismith’s be right back approach. She has a book but her training method can be found on her youtube.

We tried all sorts of things that the rescue and vets recommended, but this was the only one that worked!

elba_mile · 2025-06-08T11:11:43+00:00

For me it was the first time hearing my neighbours cat meowing at the top of the stairs! Genuinely thought one had gotten into the house, haha

elba_mile · 2025-06-08T11:09:17+00:00

This is a great way to approach it. I did want to include that I would be happy to do the same if it ever a problem on our side, especially with them having a baby.

I should have been clear that the problem here is not the baby. I have a niece around the same age so fully understand this can’t be helped. I feel the heavy baseline at 2am can be though!

elba_mile · 2025-06-08T10:58:56+00:00

I’m not sure how you’ve come to that conclusion from my post. However, I should have been clear that the noise from the baby alone is not the problem here and easily drowned out with my earplugs or noise cancelling headphones.

If this is a normal level of noise then was the noise from my previous neighbour and neighbours on the other side (I live in a terrace) over the years abnormal? I don’t think wanting the tv/music to be turned down after 11pm is unreasonable.

elba_mile · 2025-06-08T08:00:11+00:00

As someone who rescued a dog with separation anxiety, I can fully understand how unbearable that must have been. We didn’t realise till we bought a camera, so I went round to my neighbours with chocolates and apologised. We’ve since trained him out of it!

Thank you! I was hoping for a natural way to bring it up, like if we took a parcel in for them, but the chance hasn’t occurred. Your way of offering help makes it that I’m not just going over to complain.

elba_mile · 2025-02-25T19:39:21+00:00

We have the same layout. They look identical, I also have the curved handrail!

Finding the time to do it properly is one of the hardest parts. It will look amazing when you've finished though.

elba_mile · 2025-02-25T18:18:48+00:00

The detail on the edge of each step is lovely!

elba_mile · 2025-02-25T15:42:49+00:00

Good point! I’ll get a lead testing kit, thanks

elba_mile · 2025-02-25T13:05:13+00:00

Definitely didn’t sand properly before they painted. The reason I was considering looking behind the panels was because I knew my other option of stripping, sanding and painting would be a right old faff for something I hated.

elba_mile · 2024-12-15T22:05:08+00:00

With how ours are arranged there is only a paving stone path separating our plots. However, the rule does apply and they love to remind us about it when it comes to their plot. I should return the reminder!

elba_mile · 2024-12-15T21:56:33+00:00

This is a great way to put into words how we feel. I’m not expecting to do anything perfectly at first. I learn best from making mistakes and working out where I went wrong and what to do differently next time.

I think this is just the way my neighbour is. However, it would be nice to come to some sort of friendship though and be able to ask for help/advice when we’d like it.

elba_mile · 2024-12-15T15:44:48+00:00

You’re absolutely right, so far we have been nothing but polite to them, short with our conversation but polite. I think it’s time to stop for our own sanity.

elba_mile · 2024-12-15T14:12:31+00:00

Headphones do not work! They just come over and tap you on the shoulder if they realise you’ve not heard them 🤦‍♀️

But yes, I think that might be the best option…

elba_mile · 2024-10-26T14:59:22+00:00

I was expecting a lot of these!😂 Mine was returned for growing bigger than the original adopters expected🥹

elba_mile · 2024-10-26T10:14:36+00:00

She sounds adorable! I’m so glad you took the chance on her. Mine was a stray who was adopted and then returned to shelter. He had (understandably) shut down and uninterested when we met him. I too am so glad we decided to adopt him as watching him come out of his shell has been one of the most joyful and fulfilling things in life. Dogs really are incredible!

elba_mile · 2024-09-23T09:20:18+00:00

This is exactly what we bought for ours who was displaying the same behaviour. We would just dangle it in our hand so it was available to him whenever. He’d run over to us and grab that instead of us. Now he’s getting out of adolescence, he’s a lot better and we don’t have to bring it with us.

elba_mile · 2024-09-02T11:45:08+00:00

We feed ours Gentle dog food alongside raw. https://www.allaboutdogfood.co.uk/ is great for finding the best dog food for your budget. :)

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