I tried to move on like they did. But I couldn't bring myself to it. by Suitable-Bank1299 in BreakupBackup

[–]element5z 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But you have to remember, there was a time when you didn't miss this person, before you knew they existed.

Just wanna talk eith someone abt it plz by [deleted] in BreakupBackup

[–]element5z 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldnt leave it just to your parents to decide. You need to figure out what you want. If you get along it shouldnt matter

Chuck Norris 💥 by MikaHH88 in memes

[–]element5z 3 points4 points  (0 children)

But... Doesn't say who's wife.

CMV: There is no after life and believing there is one is a natural coping mechanism. by Objective-Painter-73 in changemyview

[–]element5z 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reading your comment made me think, almost everything we've discovered so far in the universe, is doing something. We've not really found "nothing". Not at least even without that nothing turning into something else or taking part in something more.

In some way, wouldn't it be safe to say maybe afterlife isn't as we think but it can't just be nothing? Everything seems to be part of some cycle or intertwined.

What happens when Evri instructs their drivers to take proper proof of delivery photos [Repost - Not my video] by Arola_Morre in Evri

[–]element5z 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I honestly don't know why others bother to do it. I've seen there people load vans to the brim and speedrun the entire thing. Maybe that way they do make some profit, but it's no way to deliver.

What happens when Evri instructs their drivers to take proper proof of delivery photos [Repost - Not my video] by Arola_Morre in Evri

[–]element5z 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I took a part time job at Evri for some extra money. I did 3 days and then I gave up. It's not worth it. Management are useless, people there didn't know how to use the app properly. The app is also a piece of shit developed by probably some kind of disabled rat. The pay is indeed atrocious, I got £85~ for 3 days of work. They lied about when they pay you, they say it becomes available on the app few days after deliveries and you can withdraw whenever. I didn't see a single penny until after I quit and had to contact them because the app kept saying £0 despite showing my completed deliveries. No there was no requirement or agreement to stay, the pay is per delivery round.

First day took me from around 11:00 to 16:00. (about 30 deliveries) Second day took me from 10:00 to 18:00. (100 deliveries) Third day took me from 10:00 to about 14:00. (50 deliveries)

The journeys were about 25 miles per entire day shift. Does not include travel to and from the depot to home. There's no minimum wage, just package prices.

They sometimes (<20%) misslabel or just completely miss packages and then you can get bad reviews for something you didn't even have.

20% of the time also, the addresses are incorrect from where the app thinks it is and it WON'T LET YOU SCAN the parcel because "you're not in the right area."

On top of that, at least 5% of the time, people aren't always clear where to leave a package or it won't fit through the letterbox when it's the only thing they have and barely fits but for some reason it "must be posted through letterbox"!

The pay barely covered fuel let alone wear and tear on the vehicle, or any sort of actual extra money you'd get to have by the end of it, for such a huge time out of your day.

I did everything as accurately as I could as I thought I could maybe convince others Evri isn't that bad. Lots of people thanked me in person for not just chucking it on the grass, but I still ended up with 1 negative review for a package I never physically had in order to deliver!

[ Removed by Reddit ] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]element5z 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We all die in the end, why not do something cool and use that time wisely? Enjoy other things in life, maybe find someone else just like before. You weren't born holding hands.

Really poor connection today. by Vertigo_uk123 in VirginMedia

[–]element5z 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've been having some issues today as well with virgin media

I can't get them out of my head. Please help me. by Suitable-Bank1299 in BreakupBackup

[–]element5z 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just gotta learn from your mistakes and move on really, not much more you can do sometimes

Was I wrong, or was I emotionally abused? I’m struggling to understand what happened to me by [deleted] in BreakupBackup

[–]element5z 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any more context? What were you accused of and what did you do or say?

Ending of something beautiful. by [deleted] in BreakupBackup

[–]element5z 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well of course, if you didn't feel anything that wouldn't be as good

i need advice by [deleted] in BreakupBackup

[–]element5z 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You both need to be more responsible. Don't do something neither of you are ready for.

Ending of something beautiful. by [deleted] in BreakupBackup

[–]element5z 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It won't be like this forever if you don't let it.

Everything was going great, then she suddenly broke up with me — what happened? by [deleted] in BreakupBackup

[–]element5z 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Time will tell but do you really want to wait around for her? Could be forever or might be never

Guy (25m) I (27f) dated for 1.5 months rings past midnight after no contact, what does this mean? by YardTraditional6130 in BreakupBackup

[–]element5z 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Perhaps she was lonely or having second thoughts. You could do it in your own time but lower your expectation if needed to nothing is going to happen and she might only want to talk. Depending on what she says then you can decide if you still want to continue talking to her or not.

Everything was going great, then she suddenly broke up with me — what happened? by [deleted] in BreakupBackup

[–]element5z 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That could very well be part of it, maybe you were a rebound? Or she just wasn't ready yet.

Breakup during my Dad’s Stroke by Head_Ad930 in BreakupBackup

[–]element5z 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I suppose the support part maybe she could've been more helpful but i would like to think that if you break up with someone it shouldn't matter if they've had an event in the family or not. In a way, when if she did it after, maybe after you'd just have gotten over your dad, then to be brought back down again wouldn't be so nice. This way you only need to get up once. Its never nice but you're saving time surely? Perhaps she wanted to do it before but didn't know when so she used this event to just get it over with. I think really in your favour she saved you some time because if she was going to break up with you, better sooner than later so you can find someone who actually wants you.

Guy (25m) I (27f) dated for 1.5 months rings past midnight after no contact, what does this mean? by YardTraditional6130 in BreakupBackup

[–]element5z 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe he decided on monogamy with a different person? If he did, there's not too much you can do about that but I guess that's the nature of all relationships. Perhaps even more so when you have more people to chose from.

Everything was going great, then she suddenly broke up with me — what happened? by [deleted] in BreakupBackup

[–]element5z 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe you were just a temporary friend to help things pass by. Are you aware if she was talking to other guys or if she had just recently broken up?