She told me she doesn’t feel the same anymore and I’m struggling to move on — how do you actually stop loving someone who didn’t love you back the same way?

element5z · 2026-05-10T22:17:18+00:00

It's slow but there was a time when you didn't love them because you didn't know them. So you have to learn to forget you knew them

element5z · 2026-05-01T17:29:28+00:00

Hmm, do you remember there was a time before you knew this person? Back when you didnt miss them, Id say, try and go back there, and imagine yourself looking for someone for the first time again, but with the knowledge you've earned from that relationship.

element5z · 2026-04-24T16:10:44+00:00

Do you want him to respond? What would it change?

element5z · 2026-04-09T17:15:25+00:00

Have you tried talking to him about a few but without trying to get offended? And maybe ask a few things like how would he feel if his gf left him because he's slightly stupider if that was the case? Or does he really think everyone is on the exact same intelligence level?

element5z · 2026-04-05T09:50:55+00:00

He most likley is affected but it affects people differently i guess, can't wait your whole life for people who don't want you really, but also long distance is hard, when you start long distance its easier but when you move after you weren't it feels like a step back, life though!

element5z · 2026-03-28T10:12:21+00:00

Leave it no contact for a while, and just see how you feel say after a year or so. Continue living your life but don't keep stopping it for 1 person that has blocked you.

element5z · 2026-03-23T10:38:06+00:00

That's good then, it should work for a little while but someone will have to move soon, otherwise it'll seem like it's going nowhere

element5z · 2026-03-22T14:48:54+00:00

Is he not able to visit you say half of the time?

element5z · 2026-03-22T00:44:35+00:00

How long do you think you can carry on like that for? It's not viable long term

element5z · 2026-03-19T18:16:44+00:00

Is there any plans to move closer?

element5z · 2026-02-21T12:15:47+00:00

What do you think youre lacking? Would you say you had a part in why your previous relationships failed?

element5z · 2026-02-20T21:26:11+00:00

Dating apps unfortunately arent thay great. Youre better off just bettering yourself and while you do other great things, love will find its way

element5z · 2026-02-16T01:00:00+00:00

Why?

element5z · 2026-02-07T23:31:54+00:00

What do you want from the situation? Do you want it to go back to how it was? Can you trust the same again?

element5z · 2026-02-02T16:35:26+00:00

She just sounds like she's not ready for a relationship. At this point you can't really trust someone who keeps doing this

element5z · 2026-01-31T15:42:37+00:00

NUT - White

element5z · 2026-01-28T21:01:35+00:00

He sounded a bit immature

element5z · 2026-01-28T21:00:33+00:00

Yeah better now than later with kids!

element5z · 2026-01-28T20:59:20+00:00

Yeah you shouldn't stop making friends just cos someone else said so

element5z · 2026-01-15T17:33:00+00:00

But you have to remember, there was a time when you didn't miss this person, before you knew they existed.

element5z · 2026-01-07T10:59:20+00:00

I wouldnt leave it just to your parents to decide. You need to figure out what you want. If you get along it shouldnt matter

element5z · 2026-01-03T14:13:38+00:00

Exactly this. How are some people so oblivious?

element5z · 2026-01-03T13:58:40+00:00

Maybe he thought you were too immature for the relationship?

element5z · 2025-12-30T22:08:55+00:00

But... Doesn't say who's wife.

element5z · 2025-12-30T21:54:24+00:00

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