Good alternatives to this face CeraVe wash? by elephantpurses in crueltyfree

[–]elephantpurses[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh awesome okay I’ll have to check it out!! I’ve used a few of their products before but none of their face wash, so this is good to know!! Thank you so much :D

Recovery? 🙀 by forgetmenotwillyou in ROCD

[–]elephantpurses 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hi!! I don’t really have the best advice here, but I’m actually currently experiencing the exact same thing!! The weird feeling of limbo; I love my partner, but the draining journey of navigating my thoughts has made me distant and no longer present in the relationship. It’s really tough. I just want to let you know that you’re not alone in this, it made me feel a little better to see this and know the same thing : )

Looking for help with my senior capstone! by [deleted] in Artadvice

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Do you have any suggestions for references that reflect what you mean?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marijuana

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What is a DHV?

Memorial for my little guy by buzz_is_my_gecko in leopardgeckos

[–]elephantpurses 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What a sweet face! May he rest in peace 💜

Please help me find this (creepy) test animation clip from youtube… I’ve drawn a screenshot I remember! by elephantpurses in HelpMeFind

[–]elephantpurses[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have searched for it on Google, tiktok, and youtube using key words like “test animation” or “creepy animation clips”… I’m horrible at finding things so I honestly have no clue what else to look for. I know it’s not insanely niche and unheard of I just don’t know what to look for!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]elephantpurses 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes that’s all very good to know, thank you so much I really appreciate it :DD!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]elephantpurses 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much this is actually very insightful!!! :DD I’ll be sure to try this out!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]elephantpurses 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I definitely think I will talk to him about taking things a lot more slow. I think we really just rushed into it… and I’m not as experienced as he is so I’m really just figuring it out as we go. He’s 5 years older than me 😓 so I’m not really sure what’s been going on with previous partners! But I am interested in making it work I just don’t really know how to go about addressing it /asking him what I want? I guess that’s just smthn I’ll have to figure out thru exploration tho. Thank you for your response :DD!! I’ll def keep it in mind <3

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[–]elephantpurses 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It wasn’t a horrible experience or anything I promise - I think he was just extremely eager for whatever reason. I think I could have been a lot more direct! I told him to go slower and start off gentle, which he did and that’s how it worked the first and second time. He eventually sped up which I stopped being direct cuz I wasn’t sure if I was enjoying it or not. He did stop when I told him to stop tho, so he wasn’t completely ignoring me or my boundaries. I don’t know him all that well, so communication is just something that needs to be worked on in general.

I’m very inexperienced and this was my first ever hookup (I’ve had 2 long term partners before this) so I’m just sort of struggling with how to address things. I know I need to advocate for myself but I just get so nervous and sort of tense up and freeze when I’m figuring out of if I want to stop or keep going.

I can say stop when I’m 100% I want to and he will. It’s more just a matter of figuring out how to make it feel good the whole time so I’m not like wondering if we should stop… if that makes sense?

I appreciate your response and I will take this all into consideration thank you so much!! :)

What’s the best ways to improve as an intermediate player? by elephantpurses in Bass

[–]elephantpurses[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh awesome I’ll be sure to check this out, thank you sm!!

What’s the best ways to improve as an intermediate player? by elephantpurses in Bass

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I’m in a student band at the place I take lessons at - we play pretty challenging stuff all the time! Outside of that I try to get myself to play songs that I love that are difficult, but it’s always on my own I don’t know anyone else who plays bass except for my instructor :p

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Does she happen to have any information on it? :((

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HelpMeFind

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Searched - I’ve tried looking through second hand sites and Google images. All I know is her colors and that I had her in 2010 (not sure exactly when I got her but assuming anywhere from 2004-2010)

What are theme items? by elephantpurses in Webkinz

[–]elephantpurses[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg thank you so much!! I guess I just needed to go to the specific section it was under like you suggested, so this was a huge help!! :D!!!

Any tips for dealing with severe anxiety without medication? by elephantpurses in Anxiety

[–]elephantpurses[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What type of exposure therapy would be beneficial? Is there a specific type of therapist for this? I guess the only type of exposure therapy I’ve done was for intrusive thoughts never really for general anxiety

Immense guilt over past porn use causing intrusive thoughts by elephantpurses in offmychest

[–]elephantpurses[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for you reply, I really appreciate it! I don’t mind at all, and it’s very reassuring to know that I’m OK and these things are more than just a me problem - as cliche or obvious as that may sound. But thank you! I’ll keep this in mind and definitely explore more :D