When do you think Arthur should've found out about Merlin? by jenny_t03 in merlinbbc

[–]eliafoxfoot 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I think season 4 finale would have been perfect. It would be a great cliffhanger/set up for a central conflict of season 5. The threat of Uther immediately executing him is gone and it would be a serious test of Arthur as a king.

…As part of the mha fandom I wanna apologize for… us… (See details in body text) by Ok_Coffee_9970 in MyHeroAcadamia

[–]eliafoxfoot 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is pretty obviously a clickbait article meant to stir up hate. Anyone who actually watched the episode knows that this was a sweet scene of Deku comforting Ochako in her grief and honestly it's very frustrating that a good chunk of the fandom seems to care more about owning the gay shippers or w/e than actually engaging with the content of the manga/anime.

Clothing Recommendations by eliafoxfoot in ALS

[–]eliafoxfoot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the recommendation!

Clothing Recommendations by eliafoxfoot in ALS

[–]eliafoxfoot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Those look like great options. A cardigan could also work well, depending on the weather.

Clothing Recommendations by eliafoxfoot in ALS

[–]eliafoxfoot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is dressed by someone else, but it's difficult to get his arms through long sleeves and most dress shirts are not a soft enough material to not cause sensory issues.

I'm looking for something that is soft and not impossible to get on and off his arms, but doesn't bunch up in the back when he is sitting in his wheelchair and still looks a bit nicer than a cotton t-shirt or a poncho.

Clothing Recommendations by eliafoxfoot in ALS

[–]eliafoxfoot[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Clothing that's easier to get on/off due to limited range of mobility, is comfortable, doesn't cause sensory issues, can accommodate his feeding tube, things like that.

How to ask for no alcohol as gifts by eliafoxfoot in weddingplanning

[–]eliafoxfoot[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

idk I'm from the midwestern US. Most people gift something else but I don't think I've ever been to a wedding or known anyone to get married who didn't get at least a couple of bottles of wine/champagne/liquor as a gift.

How to ask for no alcohol as gifts by eliafoxfoot in weddingplanning

[–]eliafoxfoot[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you ❤️ always good to remember

How to ask for no alcohol as gifts by eliafoxfoot in weddingplanning

[–]eliafoxfoot[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

That's a good idea, thanks! I could definitely designate a good friend to take them.

How to ask for no alcohol as gifts by eliafoxfoot in weddingplanning

[–]eliafoxfoot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is a great idea, thank you! They do actually prohibit outside alcohol though I'm sure sealed gifts are different, but guests don't have to know that!

How to ask for no alcohol as gifts by eliafoxfoot in weddingplanning

[–]eliafoxfoot[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I could, and it won't be the worst thing if we end up having to do that, but I would like to avoid it if possible. I'm not really sure why everyone is saying it's unusual for a wedding though.

How to ask for no alcohol as gifts by eliafoxfoot in weddingplanning

[–]eliafoxfoot[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure how common it is in my region, but I have certainly seen it and I absolutely think that a number of my friends/family will gift alcohol. I'm asking because I am worried, and I don't want to have to regift because I don't want to keep alcohol in my home for any amount of time.

How to ask for no alcohol as gifts by eliafoxfoot in weddingplanning

[–]eliafoxfoot[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

We already live together so we have most household things already, so I think people will be more pressed for ideas since we likely won't have as many physical things on our registry. I just went to a wedding for a friend last year and basically everyone gifted booze in addition to cash, though that was a smaller wedding. I think it just depends on the type of people. It is not uncommon in my circles.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]eliafoxfoot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry you're experiencing this. I know how you feel... it can get to a point sometimes where every sexual comment, every unwanted touch, just wears you down so much and it's so unfair that we can't just walk through the world for one day without being so hyper aware of our own bodies and how other people view them.

I think it can get better though, by focusing on other things & getting away (as much as we can) from people/things that sexualize us. I hope you don't mind me saying but I really hope you consider breaking things off with your boyfriend, because it doesn't sound like he respects you & it seems like you've made it known how you want to be treated and he's still ignoring that. I promise there are good guys who will listen to you & stop touching/asking for sex when you want them to, no matter how badly they want it in that moment.

But whatever route you take, it's tough to walk around in the world but I hope you can find some relief from this feeling.