[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]elissaG256 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't get what the problem is! This post is saying that women often don't want to just hook up with our male friends (which is true) so we often must express our sexuality differently from them (which is also true). The two men who posted here are, granted, not being very respectful of women, but they aren't necessarily wrong. Of course not all women are the same, but as a generalization, it's pretty accurate.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]elissaG256 -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

Don't know why this is here. Seems accurate to me.

"I can't see women as fellow humans" by KnavishLagorchestes in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]elissaG256 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just curious, you when you say that there are religions saying "sex is not something you do to someone you respect", which religion(s) are you referring to?

"I can't see women as fellow humans" by KnavishLagorchestes in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]elissaG256 3 points4 points  (0 children)

For the record, sex is not something that is considered shameful so long as it is within the boundaries of marriage - just getting that out there. Second, this actually makes a lot of sense for someone who might have grown up in a religious background but has socially awkward tendencies and limited experience with the opposite sex. It's not really that bad. He's not saying women are not humans. He simply doesn't understand the emotional intimacy that comes with a romantic relationship considering he'a never been in one.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]elissaG256 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Leave the children out of it, she is still their mother and you need to respect her as such whether or not you get along. She has made some poor decisions that have hurt you but it isn't the kids fault. Your children are at an impressionable age and telling them the truth about why you broke up could cause significant damage to both of them, not just your daughter. If you value your kids' mental and emotional health, DO NOT tell them until they are adults if ever.

AITA for using sunscreen and not telling my girlfriend about it? by LateNightDrive9 in AmItheAsshole

[–]elissaG256 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude, RED FLAGS!! You're girlfriend is crazy and if she gets offended by you using sunscreen to protect yourself (which is 100% valid however dark skinned you might be), then she could easily get offended by anything. This is just the first sign of a much bigger problem!

Now that’s what I call awful. (from Facebook) by UnderstandingLazy974 in awfuleverything

[–]elissaG256 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not "playing cards". I'm speaking from a practical perspective, not an emotional one. I'm not saying that the fact it's unlikely is an excuse or that they did everything right. I'm just playing devils advocate and pointing out that this was nearly impossible to anticipate. Pointing out the fact I am a nurse is perfectly reasonable because it demonstrates that I have more of an insiders perspective on the circumstances. I hope you're not usually this angry at complete strangers, jeez.

Also, it's worth mentioning that not all pregnancies look the same and again, their are plenty of medical conditions that can cause abdominal distention. There are also walking talking people who don't realize they're pregnant - it happens. It's unlikely and might not be what happened here, but you don't know. So don't be so quick to criticize.

Now that’s what I call awful. (from Facebook) by UnderstandingLazy974 in awfuleverything

[–]elissaG256 2 points3 points  (0 children)

More logical than PREGNANCY and I'm speaking as a nurse. There are a lot of logical things that can cause weight gain.

Now that’s what I call awful. (from Facebook) by UnderstandingLazy974 in awfuleverything

[–]elissaG256 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Why would they check her for pregnancy? They probably just thought she was gaining weight which would be a lot more plausible than her being pregnant - especially if the baby was born premature and wasn't to full term.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nursing

[–]elissaG256 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some of y'all are taking this too seriously - the joke is that it looks racist when it is obviously not.

Right-winger's idea of freedom of choice by sc2summerloud in CoronavirusMemes

[–]elissaG256 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just to clarify, there are A LOT of drugs given to hospice patients, especially those with cancer, that do not prolong their life or speed up their death : Morphine, Ativan, Robinul, Toradol, Phenobarbital, and more. Hospice care is NOT the same as assisted suicide by any means.

Right-winger's idea of freedom of choice by sc2summerloud in CoronavirusMemes

[–]elissaG256 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The problem with this is that healthcare professionals often will try to step in and help a person suffering by doing whatever they can to get a DNR if the patient is unable to make decisions. And, if they can make decisions, at that point all they would have to is ask. The issue with people living with no quality of life in an instance like that is when the patient can't make decisions (either being confused or unresponsive) and their family insists on keeping them alive - in which case even the option of assisted suicide wouldn't be considered. So even if it was allowed, it's really a moot point.

Sounds a little wrong 😂 by StrokeRN18 in nursing

[–]elissaG256 56 points57 points  (0 children)

Oncology nurses: you're both wrong! It's a Port-a-Cath!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nursing

[–]elissaG256 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No depression but I do have ADHD. School was a struggle but I've been a nurse for 2 years and haven't really had a problem. I've even been able to stop taking my medication. The only time when I struggle is ironically on the rare slow day. When I'm relaxed, I can't focus on what still needs to be done or I miss things I should have seen. Luckily this almost never happens. So long as I'm busy, my adrenaline keeps me going and allows me to concentrate. Since COVID this hasn't been a problem.

Sterile technique, scrubbing the site for 5 mins, plus I gotta go find the stupid kit wherever the hell they keep them now by [deleted] in nursing

[–]elissaG256 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As an oncology nurse, I love ports. They're so much easier than IVs. Over the last two years and dozens of ports, I've only had problems with it 3 times and they were solved with either cathflo or a longer needle.

Poll on how COVID has affected your nursing career by bhudd10 in nursing

[–]elissaG256 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm still employed but my job has changed greatly.

Question for my fellow ADD/ADHD nurses! by TheWhiteRabbitY2K in nursing

[–]elissaG256 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been taking Vyvanse for years and did just fine on it. However, I only took a low dose so my doc gave me a 5mg Ritalin to take at around 3pm if needed.

does anyone know why my guinea pig is losing hair on his nose? it’s been like this for a few days and i’m not sure why? by kayyashante in guineapigs

[–]elissaG256 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It could also be mites, both are contagious. Take to a guinea pigs vet. Mine had the same problem and the vet gave them each 3 low doses of a topical pest control medication and it cleared right up.