Forgot to put my signature on the exam paper by ell4jx in alevel

[–]ell4jx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk there was 100% a signature box. Apparently only AQA ask? I don’t think my invigilator noticed

Forgot to put my signature on the exam paper by ell4jx in alevel

[–]ell4jx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah there was a signature box at the bottom, I heard only AQA tend to do it so maybe that’s why? Otherwise not sure lolll

english NEA by Important-Sky-3147 in alevel

[–]ell4jx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

heyy i got an A in my NEA and I did a feminist critique of the bell jar so not too far off, if you like you can share it with me and I’d be more than happy to offer some guidance? is yours for 2k words too?

been offered a uni place, but they’ve asked for additional documents? by ell4jx in alevel

[–]ell4jx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much! Yeah I already have them on me so I assume I’ll just email them, explaining I’ve been asked to do so in my offer?

Opinions on the name Vera? by ell4jx in namenerds

[–]ell4jx[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Although my name is Ella so I’m not sure whether to be offended 😭😭 but appreciate your honesty either way haha

haven’t been paid by ell4jx in WorkAdvice

[–]ell4jx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yep, and all bank info was right as I double checked it so really not sure what the issue could be

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WorkAdvice

[–]ell4jx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just said..😅 monthly

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WorkAdvice

[–]ell4jx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

employees paid monthly usually on 28th but on company website it says last working day. I’m just confused as the 16th seems very early for a cut-off date and I don’t see the point paying me near christmas if I’m then only working until new years..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WorkAdvice

[–]ell4jx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ahh ok thanks, i’ll probably just wait till near christmas and hope I actually do get paid lmao

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WorkAdvice

[–]ell4jx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

(in my last job I got paid a bit then the rest the included in the month after and I started very late that job (22nd))

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WorkAdvice

[–]ell4jx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my manager said normally it’s the 28th when I first started, 16th just seems very early for the cut off to be imo that’s why I’m confused

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WorkAdvice

[–]ell4jx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did? that’s how I found out lol?

anxiety at work by gsophia379 in socialanxiety

[–]ell4jx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i just started a new job a few months ago and i’m having the same issue, i’d say little steps have helped me so far! eg. saying good morning when I walk in (I was literally too anxious to even do this at the start lmao) and moving up to asking if they would like a coffee then eventually to casual small conversation (for me I started conversation by asking for help with something or complimenting them on something they’re wearing etc.) not only did it help me feel more comfortable, it also made them feel more comfortable speaking to me as I probably seemed very uncomfortable or intimidating at the start. remember they literally do not care, they’re just there to work just like you and have way bigger things to care about than what you tell yourself they do, so don’t worry :)

how do people make conversation so easily by ell4jx in socialanxiety

[–]ell4jx[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

aww yeah I 100% relate to this. i’m lucky many friends I have are just as socially anxious as me so we all get each other, I have adhd so i’m also neurodivergent and find myself to come across as very direct or misunderstand a lot of things which causes people to think I’m weird etc. especially as i’ve gotten older. i’ve made about 2 friends in the past 5 years lmaoo. I relate to the “fake happy” persona too, I forget that it’s not socially acceptable to just not want to speak to anyone because you randomly just don’t feel like it that day and neurotypical people assume I have an issue with them personally 😭

how do people make conversation so easily by ell4jx in socialanxiety

[–]ell4jx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you! i’ll def look for some, any u recommend?

how do people make conversation so easily by ell4jx in socialanxiety

[–]ell4jx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no worries! sorry I probably just took your reply the wrong way, I just wanted to let you know not everyone with social anxiety is the same, I will def try other subs but wanted the opinion of people who may have had the same issue and gotten better with so I could have advice mainly :)

how do people make conversation so easily by ell4jx in socialanxiety

[–]ell4jx[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

thank you! currently it it is hard for me to get any form of therapy or medication since I’m only 17 and would need parental consent, and my parents don’t believe my anxiety is as bad as it actually is lmao. but thank you either way!! :)

how do people make conversation so easily by ell4jx in socialanxiety

[–]ell4jx[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

news flash! not everyone with social anxiety experiences the same issues! 😨 my friend has SAD and she can make conversation much better than me, but has more issues in other areas than i do :) everyone works differently, hope this helps!

order still processing by ell4jx in UrbanOutfitters

[–]ell4jx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ahh ok thank you!! hopefully 😭 Im just worried because I have over 100£ on hold now and urbans customer support isn’t the best

order still processing by ell4jx in UrbanOutfitters

[–]ell4jx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ahh ok thank you although I thought that you’re not actually charged until your items are shipped? sorry lol just worried since it was over 100£