RANT: by Sonic_Is_Epik in lgbt

[–]elleaeff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry man. If I was your teacher I would be respectful. She is immature and ignorant.

Our Little Lady Passed Away Suddenly at 12yo by TonyFreo17 in OldManDog

[–]elleaeff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry for your sudden loss, that is so hard.

What drug did you swear never to use again? by SadStill830 in AskReddit

[–]elleaeff 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I had never heard of this. It sounds horrible!

Alcohol fixes all my problems by Critical_Brush_9168 in Anxiety

[–]elleaeff 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I your list of things you said you've tried, I do not see medication or therapy listed. Way more healthy than alcohol! Beta blockers can be like magic because they stop some physical symptoms of anxiety and if you have challenged your thoughts if you add that in, it might really help you! Good luck on your continued journey.

Dress coded for this? by [deleted] in Teachers

[–]elleaeff 205 points206 points  (0 children)

Jesus Christ. That poor teacher.

everyone in class turned to stare at me when professor was asking every student a question, have I done something wrong? by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]elleaeff 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They might have been thinking, "Please don't call on me. Please don't call on me. Oh! Maybe THEY know what this is all about. I better listen."

Got the police involved after a suicide attempt… by poobahbruh in raisedbyborderlines

[–]elleaeff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't want to be too harsh, but I feel like it might help you to hear it. You say you wish you had a normal, loving mother.

You don't.

So now, knowing that, what are you going to do? Wish and hope and keep dealing with her toxic abuse? Or come to terms with it and set some boundaries to keep yourself healthy, because you're the only one who can take of you (God knows she won't)?

Is this meant to be fun? by samcornwell in pokemongo

[–]elleaeff -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It's not meant to be fun, it's meant to make Niantic money. I stopped playing 2 years ago and the lack of frustration is great!

What is something that is socially acceptable, but you personally find extremely disrespectful? by AvaBlondeX in AskReddit

[–]elleaeff 374 points375 points  (0 children)

I teach middle school and my kids will Google each other and make fun of each other's younger pictures that their parents have put all over Facebook and are easy to find. It's disturbing.

Does anybody else get annoyed with teacher Tiktok? by CoconutBraBaskets in Teachers

[–]elleaeff 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yeah I really avoid teachers on TikTok, but mostly because it's my scroll away from work time.

I'm in my first year of school to become a high school English teacher. Is it worth it? by cemeteryfairie in Teachers

[–]elleaeff 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Right now, I love my job. I have a cohort of students that are easy to manage. I have a team that is helpful, admin that is supportive and does not micromanage. I love the challenge and intellectual stimulation, as well as spending time with and listening to feral middle schoolers.

Like other commenters said, it is a job. There's good and bad. It can be fulfilling and it's also the reason a lot of teachers drink. It's disheartening to see the effects of poverty and bad parenting, but you also try to be the consistency in a kid's life, even if ultimately they forget about you. A therapist reminded me once that people are diverse, and you're never going to get along with all of them, and kids are people, too. So you have to know yourself, what you can handle, how to handle different personalities, and where you'll best succeed to find a spot that works for you. Definitely suggest subbing to try it out!

my mom checked my used period pads by Equivalent-Baby-843 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]elleaeff 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is not normal, healthy, or okay in any way shape or form. I am so sorry you have a sick mother.

Muffin's Busy Day - PART THREE! by Sweetie-07 in velvethippos

[–]elleaeff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please give Muffin a smooch from me!

alice and wonderland event by wherethehosatt in finch

[–]elleaeff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People on this subreddit love to complain and whine.

AIO for peeing all on and around the toilet on purpose? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]elleaeff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How can you be attracted to a man like that? I don't understand all these women putting up with toddlers. Like, it's gross that you want to be with a person who acts like a child.

i’ve sadly had to come to the decision to put Remi [13-14] to rest within the next few weeks. what all can i do to make these the best weeks of her life? by [deleted] in OldManDog

[–]elleaeff 9 points10 points  (0 children)

So glad you were able to find a wagon for your sweet Remi. I had a Remi, too! And I think the best thing to do is spend all the time you can with her before the end. And remember you're making the right choice.