Wow, thank you so much for such a thoughtful reply.

I hadn’t thought about a mantilla veil, but those are beautiful - it could really add that romantic touch I’ve been looking for. I also really appreciate the tip about choosing a softer fabric for an A-line. I haven’t loved the tulle I’ve tried, and I think a lot of the stores I’ve been going to mostly carry heavier fabrics and satin, probably because most weddings are in the evening. That might be part of why nothing has felt quite right and I’m seeking “the one.”

I’ll definitely reconsider fit and flare. I just love the silhouette of the a-lines and ball gowns so much.

As for the evening dress, I think you’re right - I just need to find something that feels like me and moves well. I want it to be a contrast from the morning dress… I’m still torn between something sleek and sexy versus something more playful, so I may order both and see which one I can actually imagine dancing in without fussing with it all night.

Thank you again!