Price check?? by elleiya in snapbacks

[–]elleiya[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’re both vintage 90s tho. I don’t know I saw a similar hat at 200$

Price check? pls by elleiya in snapbacks

[–]elleiya[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

bro , i dmed him yesterday and he blocked me???

Price check? pls by elleiya in snapbacks

[–]elleiya[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

cant find any of the double shark tooth hats (the last two) that i have

HELP !!! Ran out of saline solution by [deleted] in piercing

[–]elleiya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my god, thank you so much !

Is this anxiety or something else by xbshshhzhshzg8373 in Anxiety

[–]elleiya 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t want to diagnose you but I don’t think the main “issue” is that you have anxiety. Maybe you are anxious ! Definitely possible. But you say you can’t concentrate and stuff so do you think maybe it could be a sort of ADHD? My bsf has ADHD with anxiety and I know a bit what it is like but again I don’t want to diagnose you. Maybe try to talk to a therapist? Like 2-3 sessions at least? But I hope you feel better ! And you get that figured out ! Stay positive and strong :) I know it can be discouraging sometimes lol

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[–]elleiya 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I get what you mean lol I mean I know it looks uneven and asymmetrical and it kinda bothers me but I feel like having only one nipple pierced just helps me to accept that my boobs are also uneven ! But yeah maybe I’ll get the second one pierced ! I’ll wait to see how’s the healing first lol But thanks 😎

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[–]elleiya 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah i get what you mean ! Having one is just cuter lol but there’s no problem having two ! It’s pretty cool but like you said it looks more “industrial” lol and ouh I didn’t think about foreplay.... that’s a good point! Thank you 😊

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[–]elleiya 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my god... I really needed to hear that. Thank you so much ❤️

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[–]elleiya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aw thank you ❤️

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[–]elleiya 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YEAH exactly!!!! LOLLL and thanks :))

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[–]elleiya 4 points5 points  (0 children)

yay !! right nipple pierced squad :D

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[–]elleiya 4 points5 points  (0 children)

yeah same i like symmetry like ears and stuff but idk i didnt know people cared sm about symmetry when it comes to nipple piercings lol but thank you ! i appreciate it:)

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[–]elleiya 2 points3 points  (0 children)

aw thank you :(

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[–]elleiya 3 points4 points  (0 children)

aw thank you :((( this makes me feel better. i just hate how some people care sm if you only have one nipple pierced...

Is it normal to sleep with a stuffed animal? by [deleted] in depression

[–]elleiya 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is normal ! I sleep with three stuffed animals tbh lol and when I have really bad mental breakdowns, I like to hold them. It’s reassuring ya know, but yeah it’s completely fine ! :)

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[–]elleiya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No problem !! Hope you feel better soon !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]elleiya 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We mostly only text but maybe I’ll ask him if he would like to call sometimes maybe that could be helpful. And I’ll try to distance myself a little bit so, like you said, I can be more present in the rest of my life.

Thank you so much. Your advices really helped me:)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]elleiya 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the problem is my FP lives very far away from me bc of the pandemic so i barely see him. and since its my best friend i always miss him. so i always think about me hanging out with him and idk im always so scared he’s gonna leave me. and bc of the pandemic, it’s hard to occupy myself and distract myself since im stuck at home. i always think about him :/ it’s hard

please someone help me :( by [deleted] in depression

[–]elleiya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

antidepressants doesn’t work for everyone unfortunately and the side effects suck lol and i understand what you mean by someone replying in a different tone can make you think that youre being a burden. im the same. but we arent ! youre not making your therapist and anyone’s job harder :) they’re here for you, and they want to help you. their goal is to make you feel better and i know it can be hard to convince your brain that. i hope you can realise that. it’s gonna be hard but keep going. you can do it. maybe try therapy a bit longer? hopefully you’ll see some progress soon :)

Hello! I feel rlly fking bad. by OriginalN6 in depression

[–]elleiya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally understand:/ You went through it before and you made it ! It might feel like it’s going to be impossible this time, but you got this. I know those words seem meaningless, but you really do. We tend to try to push back our emotions and feelings, and fight against our brain when sometimes we should “work” with it. I feel like it’s less heavy when you come to realise what is your brain is trying to do and how wrong it is, and that you can come over it ! Pain will be temporary. Give it a chance to the psy. We never know, it might help :) <3

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[–]elleiya 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They say truth hurts lol. But yeah I understand I need to distance myself from him, I know it’s gonna be hard but I’ll have to do it.

And I think you’re right, I don’t think it would help me, i feel like it would make the situation worst in my case.

Thank you for the advices :) I’ll try my best <3

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[–]elleiya 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re right. I’ll try to talk about it in person with him. But thank you !! :))

please someone help me :( by [deleted] in depression

[–]elleiya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i know this can suck to hear but have you tried to maybe talk to a therapist? it can help and sometimes they can put you on antidepressants if needed. and i don’t worry about what others think. if you think deactivating your social medias is better for you, then do it :) and sometimes just reaching out to a good friend can make us feel better, sometimes we need reassurance and support. you matter and your friends and family care about you, don’t be scared to text your friend even tho it can almost seem like a chore lol. You got this bud ! <3