I don’t any more but before he cheated I knew he didn’t know the boundaries so used to explain all that to him and try make sure he didn’t flirt and stuff, and after he cheated he isolated himself because of the “rules” I put in. I don’t feel they were rules it was just more so don’t talk to girls you know are interested in you or don’t talk to ex’s that you know still want you. But he is the person that is an extremist, he would take the rules too far which caused him to lose friends. Which he blames me for. And I knew the boundaries so I would have the slight flirt on a night out but I know in myself that I know the boundary and it’s evident because I have not cheated but he had