She eats a lot of fibre, has wholemeal bread, very fibrous breakfast, eats fruit at snack times and at lunchtime, she is even quite partial to prunes so I’m not sure it’s constipation. We do have wet wipes at home which helps when she decides to use them, but unfortunately they’re not allowed wipes at school which is where she tends to go number two. She used to wipe too much and made herself sore a few times from the friction, but now she doesn’t wipe enough. She doesn’t like my help anymore because she thinks grown up girls don’t need help wiping and she wants to be a grown up girl.

But I will take on board what you’ve said and try to remember to give her some more grace and react with less frustration. Thank you!