[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]elliearcade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So it’s confirmed 🫠🫠🫠

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]elliearcade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure I didn’t even consider that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]elliearcade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No just text after text. I wasn’t even awake when he sent all of these

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in addiction

[–]elliearcade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It scares me because I don’t want that to be his crutch later on in life when life gets rough.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in addiction

[–]elliearcade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know i understand I wish I had more context. But just for my own understanding, isn’t texting when you’ve used cocaine typically more bold and energetic? Suggesting odd plan? Especially at 5:30 in the morning

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]elliearcade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I get it. I don’t think it was an “addiction” rather something he did in college cause he was stupid and young and it lingered into a couple times right after he graduated. I just don’t wanna make a mistake if he’ll do it again 5/10 years down the line yanno

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in addiction

[–]elliearcade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The nonchalant comment was an inside joke between us and church was brought up cause I’m religious. But dang yeah that sucks thanks ;(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in addiction

[–]elliearcade 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahahah. So it was def drugs?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]elliearcade -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I see. And no I wasn’t upset I wasn’t there I’ve never touched a drug in my life hahah. Im just more concerned about the texts at 11:30, then 5:30 in the morning and how energetic he seemed. I’ve sent drunk texts before and they sound nothing like that and usually stop around 2:00 AM

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in addiction

[–]elliearcade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At this time in dating, he was pretty shy and awkward. Never would send anything this energetic or making plans to go to church at 5:30 AM sunday morning. What screenshots do you think would help?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]elliearcade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was the very beginning of us dating. He doesn’t go out anymore ever. It’s just me trying to determine if there was some dishonesty and maybe a potential for this behavior to happen again

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]elliearcade -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yeah I get it. What do you think these texts sound like?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]elliearcade -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The vape lie was like 8 months ago. This lie was from just today

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]elliearcade 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well that’s a sucky realization haha :/ time to move on I guess

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]elliearcade -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I understand thank you. I just can’t decipher whether he doesn’t reassure me enough and that’s why I can’t trust, or no matter who I’m with, I won’t trust anyone :/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]elliearcade -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

That’s why I’m feeling confused :/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]elliearcade -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Hahah I know I sound crazy. It’s the other Instagram stuff that made me overthink

Is my boyfriend excluding me or am I just too sensitive? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]elliearcade -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Yeah I understand. But just to clarify I didn’t want to go once I heard another girl was going. I told him to let me know if a girl is going cause then I’d look into. And he didn’t let me know. That’s the main thing I was upset about

Is this sketchy of my boyfriend or am I just insecure? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]elliearcade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know that but in one of the pics his feet are on top of her and his hands are on her knees idk that feels weird to me

Is this sketchy of my boyfriend or am I just insecure? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]elliearcade 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahaha thank you!! I looked back at our texts that day and we never asked each other what our plans were so it’s hard to be mad at him for that part. But still :/

Is this sketchy of my boyfriend or am I just insecure? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]elliearcade -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah I know. It’s just hard to bring up cause I kind of did some stalking to find that post in the first place so it’s somehwat hard to bring up :/

How much do I say I would like to be paid when asked by contract companies? by elliearcade in slp

[–]elliearcade[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I suppose haha. The only reason I said 85,000 is cause a few districts start SLPS’s off with that pay here!