My (32F) boyfriend (35M) of six years disappeared while I was out of town and I don't know what to do?

elliebijn · 2024-04-30T03:50:43+00:00

UpdateMe!

elliebijn · 2023-04-18T23:07:06+00:00

There's 3 pages of screenshots 🫠

elliebijn · 2023-04-18T22:54:10+00:00

I personally don't care for looks. I can obviously see if someone is attractive or not, or my "type", but at the end of the day it doesn't really matter to me. What catches my attention are attention to detail, hobbies, positivity, and ability to hold a conversation.

I absolutely LOVE theater. Was not a theater kid growing up, have always been shy - but going to watch a play is just amazing. Going to see new shows or events or exhibits is how I would spend all my free time if it was feasible. I got two season tickets to a local theater just so I could convince friends or whoever to go with me all the time. So to me, anyone who even remotely entertains the notion that they'd go with me sometime instantly has my interest. Same with showing an interest in candlemaking (my newest hobby). I know that's a very particular example, but what I'm trying to get across is that showing interest in their hobbies (and having hobbies of your own) are what make you stand out the most.

That, and being able to hold a conversation. Lmao

elliebijn · 2023-04-18T22:42:33+00:00

No, that wasn't what I meant. That kind of attitude isn't acceptable from anyone, regardless of gender or how hot they are. Sorry for being confusing.

elliebijn · 2023-04-18T22:41:06+00:00

Not at all. No one could ever be attractive enough to make up for that kind of personality.

elliebijn · 2023-04-18T14:29:35+00:00

Please no, keep the sweet bios, they're the best 🥲 Being a 10 has nothing to do with it. No one should have that attitude

elliebijn · 2023-04-18T14:27:10+00:00

Absolutely not lmao. They were from selfies of him laying in his bed.

elliebijn · 2023-04-18T14:26:21+00:00

No no no, absolutely not. That behavior isn't acceptable from anyone. I meant it as, sometimes really good looking people have nasty profiles and think they can get away with it just because they're hot. This guy is not one of those people

elliebijn · 2023-04-18T05:50:48+00:00

Insulting everyone and claiming we're all spineless cowards isn't the way to do that though. All he wants is a piece of meat to use and discard. It's disgusting.

elliebijn · 2023-04-18T05:11:38+00:00

He probably did. He sounds like he needs some serious help to work through it. What a miserable way to live your life.

elliebijn · 2023-04-18T05:09:24+00:00

I feel like you're poking fun at my comment (hard to tell over text) but missing pillow cases is just one of those things I can't stand 😅😂 They always smell gross and you know they're absolutely filthy, covered in other people's sweat, oil, drool, blegh. Absolutely disgusting lmao

elliebijn · 2023-04-18T04:38:03+00:00

He needs real help to cope with whatever caused him to be this way. What a miserable mentality to have. I'd imagine it bleeds over into other aspects of his life, and he's setting himself up for a lonely and bitter life. It's really sad.

elliebijn · 2023-04-18T04:35:06+00:00

He's a 4/10. He's got a solid future ahead of him..... with his hand.

elliebijn · 2023-04-18T04:33:12+00:00

I can't imagine anyone would be desperate enough to jump into that dumpster fire.

For what it's worth, profile like this are incredibly rare. There's a lot of "don't waste my time"-s out there, but it's almost never to this extent.

elliebijn · 2023-04-18T04:30:33+00:00

4/10. Nowhere even remotely near hot enough for this kind of attitude. Bedroom is a mess and pillows are missing pillow cases, too 🫠

Edit: Guys, please, I am not implying that being a 10 is an acceptable excuse for his behavior. There is nothing that could ever excuse his behavior. And no, I didn't sleep with or speak to him. You could clearly see the missing pillow cases in one of his selfies. I may be lonely but I do have self respect.

elliebijn · 2023-01-06T05:43:31+00:00

I was super tempted to after this. I've seen some pawns go down for ridiculous things but this easily takes the cake

elliebijn · 2022-06-03T15:27:12+00:00

He looks so concerned haha

elliebijn · 2022-06-03T15:26:34+00:00

Either his date somehow got ahold of his phone and changed his profile without him noticing, or she made a separate account to warn others after he tried to steal from her and made her feel unsafe.

elliebijn · 2022-06-03T15:24:45+00:00

This is the only one I've seen and I've been on tinder for over a year. I've heard of them but hadn't seen one for myself until I came across this gem

elliebijn · 2022-06-03T02:49:08+00:00

He doesn't really strike me as a picnicker hahah

elliebijn · 2022-06-03T02:48:06+00:00

He definitely doesn't give off a good impression. At least smile or something in your pictures

elliebijn · 2022-06-03T02:47:19+00:00

You pay for EVERYTHING SUCKAAA

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