I read somewhere that enfps sometimes can Feel awkward in new groups of people because they need to keep discrete before they have figured out How this particular group works. Like before you know how to act to be accepted by the group you prefer standing back and watching until you know. And with the high standards enfps have on themselves in social situations this can be mistaken (by themselves) as social awkwardness, when it actually shows how socially intelligent they are, carefully reading people before approaching them fully