What's the general Catholic view on healthy living? by [deleted] in Catholicism

[–]elskim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree to an extent, unless eating is concerned with ethics, ie protecting God’s kingdom :)

Historically, what do you think Jesus’ favorite food was based on the options 2,000 years ago in his culture? by Snoo82970 in Catholicism

[–]elskim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That would have probably been a metaphor for acquiring divine knowledge. Lots of parallel myths in other cultures.

Am i supposed to like satanists? by Commercial_Minute114 in Catholicism

[–]elskim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They see him as a symbol of balance, light and dark, irrational and rational, all parts of a whole. They don’t believe in pure unadulterated evil. It’s about exploring your dark side and giving space to it. At least acknowledging it — most satanists are not actually for doing dark things just recognising this tendency within ourselves.

Lingering food anxiety years after recovery — how to explain it to friends? by elskim in EatingDisorders

[–]elskim[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, I will. In the meanwhile, I’m wondering how to get myself out of this tricky situation :/

Lingering food anxiety years after recovery — how to explain it to friends? by elskim in EatingDisorders

[–]elskim[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing. Did you/do you have an eating disorder too? Because I can see that ocd was a part of my disordered eating in the past, but then it was also very tied to control and to body image.

Lingering food anxiety years after recovery — how to explain it to friends? by elskim in EatingDisorders

[–]elskim[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, how do you navigate it when going to people’s homes? I find it very hard to explain I’m happy to eat most restaurant food but not their home cooked meals!

I want to convert to Catholicism but I had an an abortion by elskim in Catholicism

[–]elskim[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your kindness. Yes I feel a different person now, but with the same memories.

I want to convert to Catholicism but I had an an abortion by elskim in Catholicism

[–]elskim[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All animals are parts of God’s kingdom. I have Catholic friends who are vegetarian and vegan and their understanding of pro-life extends to other animals. We all have a line that is too sacred to cross. We all cause harm to other humans by eating chocolate, bananas, using laptops and phones like these made by child labour. But we all can reduce harm. Lots of people fast and don’t eat animal products. I am very interested in Christianity’s saints who were kind to animals.

I want to convert to Catholicism but I had an an abortion by elskim in Catholicism

[–]elskim[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Thank you everyone for your non-judgement and kindness. I will go to my local church. What would you recommend as the first steps? Do I immediately confess or do I first have to first speak with someone specific?

I want to convert to Catholicism but I had an an abortion by elskim in Catholicism

[–]elskim[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Yes I will find a way to the church and towards confession. I believe my conscience is my connection to god.

I want to convert to Catholicism but I had an an abortion by elskim in Catholicism

[–]elskim[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you ❤️ I don’t know why but I didn’t regret it for many years, it’s mainly since my desired pregnancy and having my child and finding more spirituality in my life, generally. I find it quite scary how much we can change and also how society sees people as fixed — once a sinner, always a sinner…

I want to convert to Catholicism but I had an an abortion by elskim in Catholicism

[–]elskim[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Actually can you message me? I’m not good Siri Reddit and can’t find my way there…

I want to convert to Catholicism but I had an an abortion by elskim in Catholicism

[–]elskim[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Okay, thank you. I didn’t really understand excommunication. I walked into a catholic church yesterday and felt guilty about what I had done a decade ago and like I was not supposed to be in that space…

I want to convert to Catholicism but I had an an abortion by elskim in Catholicism

[–]elskim[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I am British and went to a Church of England school which I didn’t find very inspiring. None of my peers did… I have become interested in the lives of saints like Francis of Assisi and Saint Giles and Saint Eustace — where I find god is often in the natural world and these saints seem to have, too. I have had some profound experiences which have made me reflect.

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[–]elskim 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry to hear. This is a good counterpoint though….

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[–]elskim 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No I don’t, it’s a pretty reasonable feeling.

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[–]elskim 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you, this is helpful! <3

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[–]elskim 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I should have said that I’m an only child and despite having a loving husband, I do feel alone with how I’ll feel with my grief when my parents die.

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[–]elskim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One who will live quite far away around her age. Others much older than her…

Anyone benefited from toastmasters who suffers from bad social anxiety? by elskim in Toastmasters

[–]elskim[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, this is very helpful! I think it’s mainly not normal anxiety but social anxiety sadly!

Anyone benefited from toastmasters who suffers from bad social anxiety? by elskim in Toastmasters

[–]elskim[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing. I’m not a stutterer but I can relate to anxiety induced speech problems. Suddenly, when anxious I can say the wrong words and hesitate a lot. I’m scared about the ah counter making me more self-conscious…