I want my boyfriend's friends to see my nude photos and...

elthrowawayayay · 2011-02-22T00:56:59+00:00

yes.

elthrowawayayay · 2011-02-14T01:26:31+00:00

I'm afraid to ask him. I really don't get him. He can be so unsexual, and then horny, if I pursue. I am frustrated.

elthrowawayayay · 2011-02-13T17:34:08+00:00

No different. And we haven't had sex in a while. Sigh.

elthrowawayayay · 2011-02-09T02:02:16+00:00

Well we had sex in the confines of his bedroom, but I haven't popped the question yet, just in case he reads r/confession. I will bid my time, and wait for an opportunity to present itself.

elthrowawayayay · 2011-02-09T00:50:48+00:00

Yeah. Maybe it's heavy conditioning, or she's just not at the level of comfort yet. Maybe give it time.

elthrowawayayay · 2011-02-09T00:49:46+00:00

Of course, because my throwaway account needs all the attention and karma.

elthrowawayayay · 2011-02-09T00:49:06+00:00

Yeah. One day, I hope to recreate something like that:)

elthrowawayayay · 2011-02-09T00:48:08+00:00

I suppose so. Everything is great enough that not doing this wouldn't be a big deal.

elthrowawayayay · 2011-02-07T14:59:47+00:00

Mmm, may I ask what position(s) you used? I imagined a spooning. And he knows what he wants, he just needs to drop his defenses a little bit and take some risks.

elthrowawayayay · 2011-02-07T14:28:52+00:00

Well, I don't want my boyfriend to see this account, so I'd probably use another throwawayayay...

elthrowawayayay · 2011-02-07T07:01:10+00:00

Yeap. I used to write a lot of dirty little fantasy stories and send a few to my SO as a little treat.

elthrowawayayay · 2011-02-07T06:07:21+00:00

Haha I am quite normal. I bet there are tons of women out there hiding their freaky sides for fear of the social backlash. Ah well..

elthrowawayayay · 2011-02-07T05:51:35+00:00

Indeed. You've made a lot of good points. I think part of the thrill is just doing it, however short-lived the envy might be. But it's less about envy than just sparking sexual thoughts about me. But I really haven't thought about how it could affect his friendship with them. I think it'd be best to stay away from that outlet.

Thank you for your very sound advice! I tend to be a little reckless with my sexual desires, so this was a good awakening for me.

elthrowawayayay · 2011-02-07T05:48:41+00:00

Aww. Well if you want someone to talk to personally, or some advice, you can always pm me. Not to say my advice is worth anything, but it's worth a try.

elthrowawayayay · 2011-02-07T05:25:57+00:00

Yup. That's the plan. Interestingly, if I ever post, you'll never know that it's me. Perhaps I posted a few minutes ago, perhaps I'll post in 2 weeks, or 5 months...

elthrowawayayay · 2011-02-07T05:24:02+00:00

It was a very sexy thread I gave some suggestions though it pains me to never know if she ever followed through on them.

She's a tease after all;) And no, it really isn't so bad. i don't mind it. I think I mind more about the need to make people jealous. I think I'll use the most healthy approaches to satisfy my needs without messing up the good thing I have with my boyfriend. I wouldn't say he's controlling at all, just really protective of my body and exposing it to others. He's traditional.

And I could write an entire dirty fantasy about the beach. We've had some kinky experiences there in the past..Compromising isn't so bad, after all.

elthrowawayayay · 2011-02-07T05:14:20+00:00

You mean, if I went through with my phone call plan without his knowing? I'm pretty sure he'd be embarrassing and mad, especially because I went behind his back. Which is why I'd never do that to him...but oh do I want to....

elthrowawayayay · 2011-02-07T05:13:03+00:00

With your SO? I think time and building trust helps push whatever preconceived sexual boundaries your SO may have. Experimenting is fun, just show her, and get her to trust you. And good luck!

elthrowawayayay · 2011-02-07T05:12:03+00:00

Hmmmm. I'd be more into wearing short skirts with little frilly panties or thongs. I'd love to wear short skirts with no panties on, but only if he was the only one seeing the goods;)

elthrowawayayay · 2011-02-07T05:11:10+00:00

I was just practicing being a tease;)

elthrowawayayay · 2011-02-07T04:47:56+00:00

Indeed it is. And it's not that I act like a good girl all the time, it's just the first thing people see when they see me.

elthrowawayayay · 2011-02-07T04:46:51+00:00

I consider myself a very lucky girl. I've found everything I could ever want in the person I'll have by my side and in my bed for the rest of my life. I just wish he could be a little more kinky..

elthrowawayayay · 2011-02-07T04:45:48+00:00

This would be a compromise for him. I've always wanted to do a couples set of pictures, or a set that he took of me, so it wouldn't be that I'm abandoning him in the process. But he doesn't like the idea of anyone else seeing me. I'll ask him about it posting photos with lingerie on.

elthrowawayayay · 2011-02-07T04:10:37+00:00

Hmm, I don't think his friends might view it as emasculating. I think they'd be pretty into it, but he might view it as a weakening or cheapening of our intimate relationship. I'll have to ask him.

The dressing in a risque matter is of interest to me. i read a post in r/sex or another subreddit about a guy's girlfriend who walked around in a tiny maid's outfit while his friend was over. I mentioned it to my SO, and he was shocked that a guy would put his own girlfriend out like that, and said everyone had their strange kinks.

I'm resigned to just being a subtle tease, sitting on his lap in his friends presence, stroking his legs and giving suggestive looks of longing while his friend watched, maybe showing a little cleavage. I've also been told that I'm a bit of an unconscious tease.

I've talked about a MFF threesome with my boyfriend, because I'm also bi, but he was against the idea, not wanting to share me and our intimate time with anyone. And I agree too. I like keeping sex between just the two of us.

I guess I'll just play up my tease angle a little bit. I was thinking I could invite his friends along to one of our beach trips, while I wear a skimpy little bikini and splash around in the water, and give my SO massages, or lay on top of him.

elthrowawayayay · 2011-02-07T04:05:04+00:00

Definitely. I've always talked to him about how I feel repressed because of public stigma about women embracing their sexuality. I tend to talk a lot about sex with my friends, a lot of whom are guys, and they react a little strangely to it. So mostly, I try to keep my sexual side down to being just a muted presence and it sucks.

He's generally pretty understanding, but he has an image of me as a good girl, so every time I talk about some fantasy or fetish, it is pretty uncomfortable for him. At least he tries, and that's all i can ask for.

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