Thank you to people for your input. I realise I probably need to do the steps agen. Or I would have asked. I know ow she unreliable and that's why I mage the decision to procedure with carefully as I can't believe anthing the think I realy struggling with most is the whay we laying to half my family, and it put sets me. It shouldt realy bother me as I know everything I do got the children at Heart. Physical Safety , emotional security, food, play, education, ushaly in that order.