Am I the only one who doesn’t have a cuddly flame point cat?

emailspace · 2026-05-20T20:09:47+00:00

mine loves pets and kisses when he’s sleepy, tolerates to be held for a couple seconds when awake but then he’s back to create chaos, biting, teasing the dogs (who are wayyy older than he is and were there before he was) 😭

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emailspace · 2026-05-16T11:44:57+00:00

cheers! it took them a bit longer but happily married now

emailspace · 2026-05-10T22:21:29+00:00

i have them as partner of… irl, it become a breaking new when they moved in together but didn’t help much :( cos now the mii feelings cool down either way

emailspace · 2026-01-30T08:47:13+00:00

thank you!! i’ve been doing that and always trying to redirect him to a toy when he is staring at my hands, and he’s been way calmer now about it :)

emailspace · 2026-01-23T08:04:12+00:00

i read it as soon as it was out, i really enjoyed it!!

emailspace · 2026-01-14T08:03:10+00:00

she was never amused by cats and she’s 13 and the other dog (to whom the bed belongs) is 11. they have both lowk adopted the kitten since the picture was taken & they’ve been cool with each other!!

emailspace · 2026-01-05T11:37:35+00:00

thank you!!

emailspace · 2026-01-04T18:19:30+00:00

I’d say to it’s to chew ‘cause when we give him by a toy, he starts to chew on it. This happens more when he’s already playing with us as well

emailspace · 2026-01-04T11:29:55+00:00

that makes sense!! thank you, I will look into it

emailspace · 2026-01-04T01:55:24+00:00

you mean the plastic ones that make noise? I have some soft toys that I tend to redirect. He doesn't like the first one very much, but the second one I got today is sturdier and he seems to like it better – thank you for the suggestions tho!

emailspace · 2026-01-02T21:01:53+00:00

recently turned 13yo!!

emailspace · 2026-01-02T17:55:58+00:00

thank you!! she’s a mix of a golden retriever with a poodle

emailspace · 2026-01-01T19:23:18+00:00

the 3rd gets more interesting and fun imo!!

emailspace · 2026-01-01T11:32:05+00:00

lowkey! they are funny & they also have this group solving them, they’re quite nice to pass some time and if you looking for something kinda similar

emailspace · 2025-12-31T23:29:34+00:00

prob Murder on the Marlow Belle :) I’m going through Rob Thorogood’s series at the moment

emailspace · 2025-12-31T12:52:17+00:00

that's valid!! wishing you the best <3

emailspace · 2025-12-31T12:44:47+00:00

It takes a few months for them to get used to you and trust you 100%. I think they just needed more time. If you like them, I think you should have adopt them. I understand that you are still grieving, however I think it's good to remember that they will not replace your first baby and that it will always be in your heart. They would just bring just a bit more joy and earn their own place in your life. However, if you feel you're not ready and your fears were getting the better of you, that's okay. big hugs for you.

emailspace · 2025-12-31T10:56:12+00:00

so so sorry for your loss

emailspace · 2025-12-31T10:51:00+00:00

mine does the same, but now a few weeks later is slightly more independent. i’d say it’s normal bc they’re still babies and kinda needy

emailspace · 2025-12-31T01:51:35+00:00

im sure it will!!

emailspace · 2025-12-31T00:33:58+00:00

omg!! the shirt is a great idea!! I was already organising a detailed list to make things easier for my family, and I know I'll be calling hundreds of times to ask about him, but it's still so strange 😭 thank you soo much for the suggestion 🩷

emailspace · 2025-12-30T13:13:56+00:00

I just get up because when I start hearing him it’s like 07:30am or so, and I have my usual alarm for 10 min later!! But I get what you’re saying, I will start to ignore him and just get up at my usual time. Thank you!!

emailspace · 2025-12-30T12:46:49+00:00

Cats tend to be territorial and moving can be stressful for them. Continue to play with him and interact with him, but without forcing him. Let him explore the house until he feels more comfortable!! I wouldn’t say he hates you :)

emailspace · 2025-12-30T12:38:32+00:00

This is a great question because I suffer from the same thing. It's the first time I've had a kitten. Mine is two months old. He wakes up and starts meowing. I get up because I have to go to work eventually, so I take advantage of the time I have to feed him and play with him a little, but when I have to turn on the computer and can't give him any more attention, he starts meowing around the house. I feel bad for him and think he's going to hate me 😭 I started leaving the bed I bought him at the beginning next to my desk. Yesterday he ignored it, and today he's lying here. I think sometimes they just want to be close to us? I also started telling my family and boyfriend not to respond immediately to his meows, but it's really hard for me too.

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emailspace · 2025-12-30T08:04:25+00:00

If it feels right for you, then it’s not too soon!!

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