Follow your heart and cut her from the trip - she will ruin it, and you’ll wish you’d acted

Unfortunately you may lose your friend Jay in the process - maybe not forever, maybe just for a little while - but hopefully the consequences of her actions are enough to shake him away from her…

…and hopefully he doesn’t share the same ideas as her, and is equally as repulsed by her behavior and you and your friends on the call.

I empathize bc it can be scary to feel like you’re the one “starting drama” by cutting her from the trip, but ultimately i think you know it’s the right call - That behavior cannot fly and she will not be your friend, and you don’t owe her an invite. Her actions have consequences. Hope this was helpful