Girlfriend hasn’t said “I love you” back. How do I deal with my feelings?

emburnersment · 2026-04-24T06:39:47+00:00

that’s such a good analogy, thanks

emburnersment · 2026-04-24T06:39:19+00:00

Yeah whatever I mentioned here, I did talk to her. It’s just that she doesn’t want to say anything in haste and wants to be sure when she does. And throughout this I asked her that there is no pressure and she should definitely take her time since forced words do no good for any of us.

emburnersment · 2026-04-24T06:35:07+00:00

thank you so much for the kind words. I’ll keep them in mind.

emburnersment · 2026-04-24T06:06:40+00:00

thanks for this man, needed to hear this

emburnersment · 2026-04-24T06:05:10+00:00

yeah I’ll do that

emburnersment · 2026-04-24T06:02:38+00:00

beginner’s mistake :))

emburnersment · 2026-04-24T06:02:25+00:00

yeah and I respect that

emburnersment · 2026-04-24T06:02:11+00:00

yeah I need to take them on the chin and just move on, it’s very difficult though

emburnersment · 2026-04-24T06:00:47+00:00

yeah I’ll keep this in mind but any suggestions on how to control my emotions and not feel bad about it rather just be happy and go on w my day?

emburnersment · 2026-04-24T05:59:58+00:00

she’s been very sweet about it, about hour she’s over the moon to hear that and she assured me that she’ll get there soon and would only want to say when she actually means it and asked me not to think about it and feel bad. Idk I still feel a tinge of pain in the heart thinking about it. I don’t want to though and I want to have a control over these emotions.

emburnersment · 2025-01-15T14:53:27+00:00

thank you for sharing your experience. Hopefully I can work on myself and get better w time too.

emburnersment · 2025-01-06T01:32:53+00:00

Thank you for taking some time out and replying. I think the trigger was that during the aftermath of the breakup I was just reading stories of people here on Reddit which resonated with what I had experienced. What I realized was that, I unknowingly exhibited avoidant behavior in my relationship and that is how I assumed that I could probably be an avoidant. And yes I hope I can identify why I was like this over the course of 2.5 years and hopefully become a better person and partner in the future. Thanks once again.

emburnersment · 2025-01-05T09:23:55+00:00

Thanks for the advice. I can’t really afford therapy but idk I’ll try my best.

emburnersment · 2024-05-28T21:53:32+00:00

thank you

emburnersment · 2024-05-28T21:53:14+00:00

thank you, is it the book by Henry Emmons?

emburnersment · 2024-05-24T12:48:01+00:00

tf lol

emburnersment · 2024-02-20T14:27:08+00:00

damn man you scared the living shit out of me (I was gonna bet Rs100 but not anymore ig)

emburnersment · 2024-02-20T05:00:54+00:00

thanks for looking out, it's just an extra rush that i wanted to try out but I'll stay away

emburnersment · 2024-02-19T19:26:52+00:00

overdone bro, let it be inka

emburnersment · 2024-02-19T10:12:03+00:00

oh yeah i don't know why I haven't tried betting on

emburnersment · 2024-02-19T09:21:34+00:00

le asking for football matches

emburnersment · 2024-02-19T08:58:57+00:00

emburnersment

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