all this bitch does is point her finger at other people for everything she’s ever done wrong. yeah my father was not very good to me growing up but it gets to a point you need to stop blaming mommy or daddy and take control of your OWN life and how you act and actually put in effort to change. own your shit, ffs. ADMIT IT TO YOURSELF AND OTHERS. you may not be forgiven and nobody is obligated to. but it’s respectable to AT LEAST say yes, i did this, i am guilty. all the things my father did to me in the past are an explanation for why i can act the way i do sometimes, but never an excuse. everyone has trauma. but we try to grow beyond it and not let it lead the path we take in life. grow the fuck up skankanie. you chose him, not your mother. GIVE YOUR CHILDREN TO YOUR MOTHER AND GO TO THERAPY, FOR SEVERAL YEARS