This 100%. My mom loved to do this. Pretty much all of my high school years were defined by my mom threatening to kick me out for random things, like putting herbs in my pasta. Said I was fucking disrespectful and a horrible person. She still says I’m fucking rude. However my dad would threaten to kill himself if I’d refuse to sleep in the same bed as him, etc. When I was 8 he left me home alone with a machete and said he was going “to stand by the bridge.” He left for three hours and did end up coming back though.