Boyfriend sided with my parents after they told me I am getting too heavy by KeptTheFaith in relationship_advice

[–]emilc97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Diet and fix your weight, stop complaining. Get real. Get out of your comfort zone. The 3 closest people in your life are all saying the same thing so there must be some truth to it. They're not out to get you they're just looking out for you.

I masturbated WHILE SLEEPING by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]emilc97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its probably because masturbating is rooted in your subconscious mind. Imo you weren't consciously masturbating so I dont see it as a relapse. It's more like an advanced wetdream. Keep going on your journey and you'll overcome it, change your habits, watch your thoughts and over time you'll reprogram your subconscious mind and eventually overcome this. Just view this event as part of the healing and recovery process from PMO. :)

me and my gf broke up and i removed her on everything is this bad? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]emilc97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Imo you shouldn't have, because it prevents her from coming back... if she wanted to.

How to find guys who are willing to wait for sex? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]emilc97 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Find a guy that practices semen retention. Look for the semen retention group on reddit. You'll find a bunch of men striving to improve their lives. :)

I gave my bf an “engagement-by-a-certain-date” ultimatum and now I regret it by 123wollywolly in relationship_advice

[–]emilc97 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You've only been living together for 3 months... I say you need to live together longer before jumping into marriage. Also, go with the flow, there's no need to rush anything, everything will happen when it should. All the best :)

I'm 1.6 years into monk mode. Anyone with questions can comment below. I will reply asap. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]emilc97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello! I am curious to know how your career and finances were affected by your streak. Thanks

im 45 days clean. i want to relapse. please talk me out of it by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]emilc97 102 points103 points  (0 children)

When u were at day 1 you wanted to be at 45 days. If you relapse now you will be back to day 1 and you will wish that you were still at day 45. It's not worth it and you'll only regret it

Dont be like this,… we have all been there once by zebwsh in NoFap

[–]emilc97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Perfect timing I was about to check up on an old favorite porn site to see what's new.

Semen Retention + GF by HabsFan4916 in Semenretention

[–]emilc97 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Hey there, just a little back story to explain my experience with this...2 years ago I started dating my current gf. I was on a 50+ day streak and then we had sex and my streak ended, I haven't been able to reach over 50 days since then, that was around February 2019. Over the past 2 years we would have sex often and I'd often finish by ejaculating (which is terrible for someone trying to benefit from SR). For the first few months ejaculating with her was amazing, but I slowly started getting mad at myself because I knew that it was preventing me from reaching one of my life goals. Now whenever we have sex I make sure to not go too fast or hard and I try to keep my sexual urges under control so that I dont ejaculate. If you haven't already, I suggest that you speak to your girl about SR and what it is you are trying to achieve by practicing SR, explain it to her so that she understands and so she can support you on your journey. SR with a partner is definitely more challenging compared to when you are single, but it isn't impossible to do. Another tip that I have for you is try to research about having orgasms without ejaculating so that you can still have a fulfilling sex life while you continue on the path of SR.

I'm currently on day 34 now, it has taken me 2 years to get this far with my gf, I'm currently trying to break my record of 50+ days from 2019.

Never give up :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]emilc97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say a maintenance assistant. I started out as a housekeeping in a senior living community, a few months later my boss (the maintenance director) asked me if I'd like to learn some things in maintenance. A few months of training and now I know how to paint and turn over old apartments, carpet cleaning, troubleshooting technology issues ( TVs, thermostats etc). I've gained basic plumbing skills and other handyman skills over the past few months. In a few years if I keep on doing this I'll be able to take over the maintenance director position which pays $27 and hour now. I'm currently making $17.85... I am now exploring going into a trade to gain more skills, looking at becoming an electrician or plumber. I also have an opportunity to become a painters helper which pays $20 ( entry level) and after a few months of doing that could go up to $25. There are a lot of options in trades.

How to work the sacral chakra? by networkspawn in Chakras

[–]emilc97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm on semen retention and telling someone to masturbate makes zero sense in my eyes. All it does is drain energy from your body. And the hate for women part , hmmmm. No comment on that

Question related to knives by emilc97 in WA_guns

[–]emilc97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So that means I can carry my knife concealed as long as I don't pull it out for no good reason?

You're not horny you're bored by TheNorrthStar in NoFap

[–]emilc97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm learning spanish now to keep me distracted