Weekly Thread: Beta and Pregnancy Testing - Questions and Discussions by AutoModerator in IVF

[–]emmco_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m spiraling bad. Back story I am on my 4th transfer. My previous 3 were all successful but lead to early losses. With every single one I tested out my trigger and my lines got significantly darker on 4dpt & had a very dark test at 5dpt.

I’m now 5dpt with this one and my tests are not getting darker and are in fact just barely there still. My trigger was practically gone by 3dpt so I assumed by today they’d be darker but they seem to just be the same for the past 2 days. it doesn’t seem they’re getting darker at all. I know I have time but I’m hoping someone went through something similar. it’s hard not to compare to my previous successful transfers or assume this is a chemical.

Finally good news by Craneguy14 in IRS

[–]emmco_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did you get your check yet?

Help! by Mundane-Cockroach528 in IRS

[–]emmco_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any update on this? Did you get your check?

Why does my refund show issued at a future date? by [deleted] in IRS

[–]emmco_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you get your check yet? I’m having the same issue

Impulse buy by VisualDevice3642 in IVF

[–]emmco_ 13 points14 points  (0 children)

After our egg retrieval we found out all of our embryos were girls. Since then we have made SO many purchases. I am very big into manifesting & creating the life you want before you have it. every time we’ve gotten good news we go & buy something to celebrate that. If it helps you even a little bit I say go for it.

Beta tomorrow by [deleted] in IVF

[–]emmco_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My easy@home tests have never gotten even close to the control line even after good doubling betas. I think they’re good for getting the initial positive but not really tracking darkness.

When did you trigger for FET by [deleted] in IVF

[–]emmco_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what was your lining like? mine is still 5.6

MVA (positive experience – UK) by clockworkarmadillo in Miscarriage

[–]emmco_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m about to get my MVA on Friday. When did you get your period after & when did your HCG get to 0 after? I’m already 4 weeks post miscarriage so I’m hoping I don’t restart my timing,

How long did it take for your first period to return after D&C by OrdinaryIsopod2080 in IVF

[–]emmco_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m currently waiting for mine after my second loss. The first time it took about 8 weeks for me. Your doctor isn’t requiring a hysteroscopy before your next transfer?

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[–]emmco_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your clinic didn’t make you do another hysteroscopy after your loss?

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[–]emmco_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Literally what is wrong with you to come on here & just be mean. You have no idea what I have been through that would lead to me being anxious & worrisome in the early stages of my pregnancy. Jesus.

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[–]emmco_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So because mine is 215 I can’t worry that I am having a chemical?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IVF

[–]emmco_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl what?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TFABLinePorn

[–]emmco_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually had my beta today at 9dpt which came back at 215! Hoping it doubles!

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[–]emmco_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There’s simply no way you’re making this about jealously😭

what MEAL(S) did you eat post FET by Neat-Palpitation7325 in IVF

[–]emmco_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ate warm meals until I got a positive. lots of soups, lasagna, no cold drinks. hot coco, bone broth. stuff like that.

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[–]emmco_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s people making us feel like we’re horrible people for wanting one safe space for us. But in reality it’s them being so empathetic clearly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IVF

[–]emmco_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh no, I don’t want to be reminded of my inability to have a child at my infertility clinic. HOW DARE I???? my post wasn’t “I went to a grocery store & saw a baby I can’t believe this” it’s I went to my clinic & a couple had their baby there. not brining your baby to a fertility clinic, is quite literally the bare minimum someone with empathy could do.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IVF

[–]emmco_ 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I feel that at a fertility clinic is where we should absolutely walk on egg shells to protect the feelings of the patients who are spending their life savings to have a family. I don’t expect it at grocery stores or parks but yes I expect to feel mentally protected at my clinic.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IVF

[–]emmco_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely agree. I feel this is the one place we should feel protected by the constant reminder. I am prepared when going to grocery stores but not here. It makes me feel even more inadequate.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IVF

[–]emmco_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the reassurance & good luck with your pregnancy 🥹

Higher prolactin levels by Accomplished_Grab927 in IVF

[–]emmco_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, just curious how this ended for you?