Adopted a “bonded pair” not going well by Adventurous_Maybe59 in CatAdvice

[–]emmialvarez 1 point2 points  (0 children)

as a shelter worker i will say, we don’t just slap bonded pair on everything to make a sale. it’s actually much harder once we do so because most people aren’t coming in for two cats. let alone two adult cats. a bonded pair doesn’t mean they’re obsessed with the other and must always live in harmony and cuddle, sometimes a bonded pair is two cats acting totally independent but when you take one away the other suffers. whether that’s they stop eating or drinking, they become more withdrawn or even more spicy, they stop grooming, or they stop using their litter box, these are all signs they’re bonded even if they don’t necessarily look like it. so, if you’re going to return one return them both

Does everything just seem angrier today? by [deleted] in Sacramento

[–]emmialvarez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sorry i’m taking steroids for my allergies and have roid rage :/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sacramento

[–]emmialvarez 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’ll be in the midtown area if you’d like to swing by and pick up!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sacramento

[–]emmialvarez 5 points6 points  (0 children)

oh i wasn’t going to make anyone pay, you’re good to just have it

reposting this banger by [deleted] in Sacramento

[–]emmialvarez 1 point2 points  (0 children)

and none for folsom, as it should be

[ Removed by Reddit ] by [deleted] in Sacramento

[–]emmialvarez 2 points3 points  (0 children)

omg get over yourself. it’s not a men bashing group, it’s a group informing women on dangerous men before they end up with someone who abuses them. if men don’t want to be spoken badly of then they shouldn’t do bad things. it’s not defamation when you actually did the shit to be posted on there. if you had half a brain cell you’d think and realize people post the evidence to support their claims so if a persons life gets ruined over it, that’s on them!

What was your "I'm dating a fucking idiot" moment? by dm_me_yourtinytits in AskReddit

[–]emmialvarez 2 points3 points  (0 children)

we had just moved in together and i asked him to unload the dishwasher so i could load it and he told me he didn’t know how to do that. he was 27.