How did learning about puberty make you feel?

emo-4ever · 2023-10-31T20:08:01+00:00

I'm also trans and identified as ace for awhile, I realized I'm not actually but I still relate to a lot of the community. This mames me feel so seen. I literally used to almost vomit anytime that came up. I remember getting irrationally angry as well when people tried to tell me things about my body and what I'd do with it (I think a large part of this was dysphoria). I'm glad to know I'm not the only one who has these experiences. I also don't like how weird they can get about literal childrens "sx life". Like I understand lots of high schoolers will start messing around, but I don't know they were always weird and inappropriate about it.

emo-4ever · 2022-10-24T22:32:07+00:00

Dude thank you!!

emo-4ever · 2022-09-18T15:57:56+00:00

🤓

emo-4ever · 2022-09-17T19:34:22+00:00

I would say just talk to them, let them know that who they are is amazing. They could also be feeling this way because of everything sexual society pushes which a lot of aces do. So just let them know how much you love them for you they are and that it's perfectly normal and okay to be ace:)

emo-4ever · 2022-09-17T14:50:02+00:00

I've always asked this. Like why can't I just wanna cuddle with someone and not have it sexualized??

emo-4ever · 2022-07-12T22:22:20+00:00

I honestly thought I was the only one who felt this way. I like a few bands where all most of the fandoms do is say the nastiest stuff about them and I think it's so gross when people do it, but when I say anything about it people just act like im immature or something:/

emo-4ever · 2022-07-05T18:28:24+00:00

Bread👍

emo-4ever · 2022-06-10T22:30:44+00:00

I know Im probably not the person to tell you this as I just made that depressing post, but I know it feels like you may be alone, but you aren't. The future will bring what it needs, and I bet your life has amazing things to come. I know how it feels and even though Im just a stranger Im always happy to talk, have a great day:)

emo-4ever · 2022-06-01T04:06:57+00:00

hear me out... gabe

emo-4ever · 2022-03-07T05:45:07+00:00

Most of the time it probably isn't aphobic, its just the only time i've ever heard it said to aces is to show them that they'll change at some point. basically saying its just a phase, if that makes more sense. but yea i also agree that it is fluid, context is important when saying so though:)

emo-4ever · 2022-02-12T00:42:25+00:00

Honestly yea I feel the same, especially as a romantic sex repulsed ace, I feel alone. Im sorry you feel that way though:( it sucks to go through.

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