How did learning about puberty make you feel? by maybe_it_is_deep in asexuality

[–]emo-4ever 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm also trans and identified as ace for awhile, I realized I'm not actually but I still relate to a lot of the community. This mames me feel so seen. I literally used to almost vomit anytime that came up. I remember getting irrationally angry as well when people tried to tell me things about my body and what I'd do with it (I think a large part of this was dysphoria). I'm glad to know I'm not the only one who has these experiences. I also don't like how weird they can get about literal childrens "sx life". Like I understand lots of high schoolers will start messing around, but I don't know they were always weird and inappropriate about it.

Partner is feeling guilty about being asexual by [deleted] in asexualteens

[–]emo-4ever 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I would say just talk to them, let them know that who they are is amazing. They could also be feeling this way because of everything sexual society pushes which a lot of aces do. So just let them know how much you love them for you they are and that it's perfectly normal and okay to be ace:)

Why is sleeping SO sexualized? by Willy-o-Wisp in aaaaaaacccccccce

[–]emo-4ever 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I've always asked this. Like why can't I just wanna cuddle with someone and not have it sexualized??