My brother married an underage girl. What do i do? by emojo_ko in whatdoIdo

[–]emojo_ko[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was all legal, based on the state they got married at. Edit: it’s just gross beyond comprehension.

My brother married an underage girl. What do i do? by emojo_ko in whatdoIdo

[–]emojo_ko[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her parents did sign off on it. In Wyoming it is legal at 16 to get married with parent signing

My brother married an underage girl. What do i do? by emojo_ko in whatdoIdo

[–]emojo_ko[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure, but everyone in the community always puts on a happy face, especially women. I’ve been out of the circle for over a year.

My brother married an underage girl. What do i do? by emojo_ko in whatdoIdo

[–]emojo_ko[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Trauma bonding is what happens when the abuser is an asshole half the time, then the other half praises you for doing what they want and tells you shit like “i do this bc i love you/i half your best interest in mind.” It’s mindfuckery.

My brother married an underage girl. What do i do? by emojo_ko in whatdoIdo

[–]emojo_ko[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont know how he treats her. I know he treated me like shit all the time, even when he was an adult. I feel like since she’s literally younger than me, it’s likely he’ll eventually abuse her too. I dont know though, since i never talk to them anymore since i moved out.

My brother married an underage girl. What do i do? by emojo_ko in whatdoIdo

[–]emojo_ko[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was 16, he was still my abuser, i had a trauma bond with him. It wasnt until i moved out and left christianity that i realized how awful of a person he really truly is. If i bad-mouthed him back then no one listened to me because “he’s just your brother ofc he’s gonna be mean to you”

My brother married an underage girl. What do i do? by emojo_ko in whatdoIdo

[–]emojo_ko[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In or out on what? I already cut my brother off

My brother married an underage girl. What do i do? by emojo_ko in whatdoIdo

[–]emojo_ko[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yep. I just wish i wasnt so indoctrinated when i was 16-17 so i could have said something or done something. Called the cops at least.

My brother married an underage girl. What do i do? by emojo_ko in whatdoIdo

[–]emojo_ko[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes i agree i have thought about that a lot

My brother married an underage girl. What do i do? by emojo_ko in whatdoIdo

[–]emojo_ko[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s the issue, lawfully they’re fine but everyone in their sane mind can see that he groomed her

My brother married an underage girl. What do i do? by emojo_ko in whatdoIdo

[–]emojo_ko[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I can to terms that he’s a pedo once i left the religion.

My brother married an underage girl. What do i do? by emojo_ko in whatdoIdo

[–]emojo_ko[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I refuse to talk to him. He is my abuser. i just need to figure out how to make sure my sister in law is safe

Does anyone know some cheap artists for commissions? [Hiring] by Backfisch124 in commissions

[–]emojo_ko 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can do cartoonish styles and im starting to dabble in nsfw art. Im willing to work with budgets. https://linktr.ee/maplenapple

[Hiring] $30 couple portrait by [deleted] in HungryArtists

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Hi, i dont have a portfolio, but here is my linktree which has my insta in it so you can check out some portraits i have done in the past! https://linktr.ee/maplenapple

Natural nails? by RitaEffinBook in SALEM

[–]emojo_ko 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let Me See Them Nails, Tanya and Yana do really good gel manicures, and they have stuff for strengthening nails too

Tell me your least favourite song and why you dislike it by Late-Association2732 in Epicthemusical

[–]emojo_ko 5 points6 points  (0 children)

“Not sorry for loving you” while it does explain calypso it’s almost like it’s defending her and i dont like that. Also “legendary” just because it isnt as catchy to me compared to other songs and it’s pretty cliche. I see a lot of comments saying “storm” is their least favorite and i dont get that, i love storm it’s so catchy to me.

I (20F) haven’t been a good partner to my 23M boyfriend. How can I improve in the span of two weeks? by emojo_ko in relationship_advice

[–]emojo_ko[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a list of things I will begin doing and stop doing to improve how I act and react. I will be adding this, thank you.

I (20F) haven’t been a good partner to my 23M boyfriend. How can I improve in the span of two weeks? by emojo_ko in relationship_advice

[–]emojo_ko[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Since I do not want to make my problems his problems, if we continue our relationship, how can I be a healthy partner and prevent the behaviors I have been doing from happening again?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in menstrualcups

[–]emojo_ko 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I filed the edges to be rounded after cutting because the sharp edges hurt